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Hi, I've been reading this forum for the last few weeks. I'm pretty sure I'm an ISFJ, but there are a few things that I'm not sure of. First of all, I've been reading a lot of us being very good children. I was pretty much a delinquent. My parents went through a nasty divorce when I was 8-9 and my dad wasn't part of my life much after that, although we're close now (I'm 30). I grew up with my mom and two sisters. My mom did a very bad job disciplining me, so I was pretty much able to do what ever I wanted to. The worst when I went to high school. I hated it and eventually had to drop out because I was so far behind. I eventually got a bachelor's degree in accounting, but the last few years I've realized I've had a problem with social anxiety and dealing with people. It really hit me hard when I went away to college. I was trying to be extroverted my whole life, but always knew I was different but never knew why. My family always labeled me as depressed. My dad and one of my sister's pretty much have no empathy whatsoever. Anybody have any of these same experiences or any insight? I'm sure anybody, regardless of personality, would have problems in a dysfunctional family. Although I was regarded as a favorite of some adults when I was a kid.
Everything else pretty much fits me to a T. I thought I was something else, can't remember what, until I took the test a few times. thanks in advance for any insight.
Everything else pretty much fits me to a T. I thought I was something else, can't remember what, until I took the test a few times. thanks in advance for any insight.