Don't base too much on the tests. Forced choiced tests (ie. Choose A or B type tests) are not highly regarded for accuracy. That's why people get so different answers when they take it, because it depends on their current emotional state and their current values at that moment that strongly affect how they answer. I prefer questions like: please give directions from Point A in your town to Point B in your town? Or please describe your room, what's the most important item in it, where do you place it? Those are the questions aren't less prone to mood swings.
Back to your question, all your problems at first will be values and expectation problems and those are related to personality type. If you don't know his values demonstrated values (what his life shows as important to him by what he surrounds himself with and where he spends his time and energy) instead of his stated values (what he tells you is important to him) then you'll wonder why he says one thing and does something else.
Also, I find that shared problems build stronger more lasting bonds then shared interests. People who are trying to solve the same life problems tend to connect more than people who have the same taste in movies and books.
Back to your question, all your problems at first will be values and expectation problems and those are related to personality type. If you don't know his values demonstrated values (what his life shows as important to him by what he surrounds himself with and where he spends his time and energy) instead of his stated values (what he tells you is important to him) then you'll wonder why he says one thing and does something else.
Also, I find that shared problems build stronger more lasting bonds then shared interests. People who are trying to solve the same life problems tend to connect more than people who have the same taste in movies and books.
