have you guys ever experienced this? One of my ISTJ friends recently encountered this with a family friend. I know ISTJs have a more traditional view on marriage, but I also know that ISTJs (at least the ones I know IRL) don't like to be pressured into a decision they haven't thoroughly considered and committed to. Anyway, I was just wondering about your opinions on this or if anyone has encountered something similar, where they were pressured into something more than they were willing to. and if so , how you responded?