Well I decided to create a Personality Cafe account after searching the net for information to help me deal with an ESTP "friend." Our relationship has always been shaky and somewhat tumultous. We argue/fight around every two weeks though we always end up talking to each other in the end. I certainly don't know why. Sometimes her rudeness/apathy hurts my feelings and I tend to lash out at her. I admit that to her and I've asked her if she minded. To my face, she says she really doesn't care. But then, another friend of ours tells me, when this "friend" isn't around, that she said that sometimes I'm really mean to her and it hurts her feelings, and that it's not what I say but what I do that hurts her feelings... Though to me, it seems like she never really gets hurt.