Pick Up Artist tactics, "theory" what have you. What is yoru experience and opinion on this stuff?
ok this may be laughable, in its cheesy "guy in a bar" form, but I've noticed a lot of guys manifesting this kind of behavior, to various degrees. the more clever ones are very subtle, and make you think they'er not doing anything. those are the ones I'm watching for.
Seems more of a feeler guy thing, they have more of a vested interest in their emotional ego, and less confidence in their ability to be thinker witty. (sorry) so they resort to emotional strategy, which is what they do best. Nts will do intellectual strategy. I'm not interested in that, as I'm already familiar with it. I'm interested in recognizing feeler game. I draw them like flies. They see my ENTPness, even if they dont know what it is, and they want to own me like a toddler on a leash at Disneyland. So I've decided to learn to understand and recognize, and master, this kind of conscious behavior. I want to reverse roles on the players. I"m already intuitive. I can compartmentalize and act. I need to know quickly when im seen as a person, and when i'm seen as a target. And then decide quickly how far to play into their delusion, and when to shock them with my awareness.
Also, im extremely interested in predicting guys' behavior. Now what i say by predicting, means not jumping to one conclusion like its infallible. I approach it like, narrowing it down to the most likely options- the way elves saw visions of possible versions of the future. When you recognize an agenda and pattern in someone, its pretty easy, though you wanna keep an open mind about at least 2 most likely scenarios about how this person will proceed.
For example. Dude excluded me from early invite, thinking i'm sure to make a point about my not going to his other events. I keep letting him read my stuff, he'll interpret that as either "im all good" indifference, or as me trying to get his attention. I predict he will most likely send last minute invite, thinking he is clever like i've been waiting. IF he doesn't, he'll probably send one in the future. When people do things that are reactionary, they WILL be checking for a reaction. Without one that indicates partiality, he'll have step forward a bit more, or forget. If he forgets, i decide whether or not to step out myself. (probably not in this case.)
ok this may be laughable, in its cheesy "guy in a bar" form, but I've noticed a lot of guys manifesting this kind of behavior, to various degrees. the more clever ones are very subtle, and make you think they'er not doing anything. those are the ones I'm watching for.
Seems more of a feeler guy thing, they have more of a vested interest in their emotional ego, and less confidence in their ability to be thinker witty. (sorry) so they resort to emotional strategy, which is what they do best. Nts will do intellectual strategy. I'm not interested in that, as I'm already familiar with it. I'm interested in recognizing feeler game. I draw them like flies. They see my ENTPness, even if they dont know what it is, and they want to own me like a toddler on a leash at Disneyland. So I've decided to learn to understand and recognize, and master, this kind of conscious behavior. I want to reverse roles on the players. I"m already intuitive. I can compartmentalize and act. I need to know quickly when im seen as a person, and when i'm seen as a target. And then decide quickly how far to play into their delusion, and when to shock them with my awareness.
Also, im extremely interested in predicting guys' behavior. Now what i say by predicting, means not jumping to one conclusion like its infallible. I approach it like, narrowing it down to the most likely options- the way elves saw visions of possible versions of the future. When you recognize an agenda and pattern in someone, its pretty easy, though you wanna keep an open mind about at least 2 most likely scenarios about how this person will proceed.
For example. Dude excluded me from early invite, thinking i'm sure to make a point about my not going to his other events. I keep letting him read my stuff, he'll interpret that as either "im all good" indifference, or as me trying to get his attention. I predict he will most likely send last minute invite, thinking he is clever like i've been waiting. IF he doesn't, he'll probably send one in the future. When people do things that are reactionary, they WILL be checking for a reaction. Without one that indicates partiality, he'll have step forward a bit more, or forget. If he forgets, i decide whether or not to step out myself. (probably not in this case.)