Since the ESTJ forum is so inactive, I was wondering if you guys could help me sort this out.
I recently starting dating an ESTJ, but we've been friends for a long time so I know her pretty well. She represses as much as I do (which, in case you don't know, is typical of my type). I've been a little concerned as of late because she has seemed extremely unhappy. On top of that she's tired all the time and she told me her grades have dropped a little. And she like never eats but I'm not sure if that's a recent thing or not.
Most importantly, I would like to ask you all how exactly I should go about bringing this up in a way that doesn't seem insulting to her. Maybe I'm just worrying too much but...I'm just concerned. Damn these primary thinking functions.