Being an INTJ I'm very reserved when it comes to emotion. I tend to use logic rather than feeling, even shutting down or repressing emotions that don't seem rational. So it's rare I'll 'have feelings' for anyone unless I'm sure that 1) they're what I'm looking for in a lover and 2) I believe they have at least a small amount of interest in me. If they just meet one of those two criteria I'm only very interested in them. Like Grey said, when I'm interested in a guy I voluntarily share more information than I otherwise would. (For example, when he asks how my day was I'd give him a little more of an answer than my usual, non-descript and evasive "fine"). I also notice I become a lot more extraverted, animated, and playful whenever he's around.
Nope. If an INTJ (at least one like me) likes you and decides to do something with it, he will make you know. You won't notice a thing until he decides you should know. And then he probably already knows if you feel the same. (he might be wrong though, this stuff isn't the INTJ's best area)
meaning deep feelings?
I think you can approach an INTJ directly, but don't expect a smooth way in case there is no interest. It will just be something like: Sorry, not interested.i am kind of liking this INTJ vibe...so INTJs do you all prefer to be the initiators, or do you like to be approached by a girl? i am the approaching type.
I think you can approach an INTJ directly, but don't expect a smooth way in case there is no interest. It will just be something like: Sorry, not interested.
Generally, because INTJs are more reserved you will probably not see any signs unless their intended, and by then the person would have already made it clear...so just give it time.