questions for you guys...

I'll play.

1) How do ESTP's show that they care?
I'm present.

2) What are some good ways to show an ESTP that you care?
Show up. Touch me.

3) What are some common ESTP pet-peeves? (what annoys you?)
Unreliability. Dishonesty. Trying to say something with a twenty minute lead-in... GET TO THE POINT.

4) Do ESTP's forgive often?
All the time, but there's an invisible limit to how many forgives a particular person gets.

5) How do you apologize to an ESTP?
"I'm sorry. Can you forgive me?" Then, hug. Depending on the offense, the giving of space might be necessary.

6) How does an ESTP apologize to you?
"Woah, sorry." HUG. or "why are you upset by that? that doesn't even make sense. grow up/get over it/etc."

7) Do ESTP's like to cuddle?
HELL YEAH I DO.

8) Describe what a romantic evening might look like through the ESTP perspective?
Bungee jumping. edit: OKOK. Maybe a nice dinner out and a snuggle in front of a movie. Then, a proper shagging.

9) Do ESTP's like to clean (ie: chores)?
Only with a team. Do chores with me and LETS GET THIS SHIT DONE.

10) Do ESTP's like to be touched? (IE: hugged, pat on the shoulder, etc..)
INDUBITABLY!

11) Do ESTP's ever get nervous around someone they are trying to impress?
Rarely. But then again, I don't ever really "try" to impress someone. I am just myself. That's pretty impressive.

12) How does an ESTP parent act? (Really involved in your children's life?)
Not one. Don't have one. Can't help you.

13) As an ESTP, is there anything you struggle with?
Patience and extensive foresight.

14) As an ESTP, is there anything you have wanted to change about yourself (not physical)?
I wouldn't mind being a bit more organized at times.

15) What is your biggest regret? (Do you even have any regrets?)
No regrets. Lessons learned.

16) What do you love about life?
It's beauty.

17) What do you hate about life?
The same-y grind-ness that comes with it.

18) How important are 'goals'?
Very important. The game would never be won without them.

19) How important are 'people' in regards to you?
Super duper. I just loving having those folks around.

20) Do you ever get emotional?
I cried at the end of "Saving Private Ryan"

21) How important is 'acceptance' (social)?
Definitely depends on the society. But pretty damn important.

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1) How do ESTP's show that they care?
I like Bean's response, "I'm present." That's exactly it.

2) What are some good ways to show an ESTP that you care?
Be present. Acts of service, working with me as we are a team. Touching.

3) What are some common ESTP pet-peeves? (what annoys you?)
Betrayal is number one on my list. Never lie to an ESTP. And I HATE doing laundry.

4) Do ESTP's forgive often?
If someone is truly sorry then yes. If they did something that broke my trust I will forgive for my own health but not be a part of them. There is no going back when trust is lost for me. I can never feel the same toward that person.

5) How do you apologize to an ESTP?
"I'm sorry. Can you forgive me?" Then, hug. Depending on the offense, the giving of space might be necessary. Agreed, but I'll add, don't do it again. I will not be a doormat for anyone.

6) How does an ESTP apologize to you?
If I truly hurt the person I have no issue recognizing my wrong and saying I am sorry. If they are just hypersensitive people, it's annoying.

7) Do ESTP's like to cuddle?
Yes. I am very cuddly with my kids.

8) Describe what a romantic evening might look like through the ESTP perspective?
Good wine and food. Walk on the beach. Good conversation with laughs. Music. Massage.

9) Do ESTP's like to clean (ie: chores)?
I don't like to clean but I refuse to live in a dirty house so I've always kept a clean home. I also have cleaning ladies which helps.

10) Do ESTP's like to be touched? (IE: hugged, pat on the shoulder, etc..)
Yes!! I like to be pursued. Not sure if this is an ESTP thing or a learned behavior I have.

11) Do ESTP's ever get nervous around someone they are trying to impress?
No, then again not many people impress me.

12) How does an ESTP parent act? (Really involved in your children's life?)
I act like a kid myself. I think I have a really good balance of switching over to the parental role. My kids know to never disrespect me, I make it very clear. I encourage them to try everything. I am always doing, this can cause frustration for an ESTPs children and spouse. However, on the flip side they really love that I do things for them. That is how I show my love. I want them to happy and productive people. My expectations for them are accordingly. I see who each one for who they are and encourage them to be their best.

13) As an ESTP, is there anything you struggle with?
Time management. Trust.

14) As an ESTP, is there anything you have wanted to change about yourself (not physical)?
Time management.

15) What is your biggest regret? (Do you even have any regrets?)
Probably not finishing out a goal.

16) What do you love about life?
The good people in it. The bad ones I can do without.

17) What do you hate about life?
Dishonest people. Fake people.

18) How important are 'goals'?
Very important but you need to have the flexibility to change them if need be.

19) How important are 'people' in regards to you?
I love people. For the people I love, "what's mine is yours."

20) Do you ever get emotional?
We all have our moments, I am less emotional than most of the women I know.

21) How important is 'acceptance' (social)?
It's less important than when I was younger. I care about what my family thinks of me. I'd rather be in charge than accepted by a group. Hopefully both.

1) How do ESTP's show that they care?
I help out with people. If they're a close friend and they need money, etc, I have no problem giving it to them. I know I'll be paid back and can trust them to follow through. I'll listen to what the person has to say and not try to intervene so much just to hear myself talk. I like to give them my full attention.

2) What are some good ways to show an ESTP that you care?
Go out and join them in doing something they like. And while you're both outside doing things, ask them questions. I'm at my best when I'm in the moment and doing something. It's like anything will pop out of my mouth during an activity.

3) What are some common ESTP pet-peeves? (what annoys you?)
Dumbass drivers and people who think the world just revolves around them.

4) Do ESTP's forgive often?
Yes, I'm a forgiver, but the relationship won't be the same as it once was. Once again, it depends on the situation. If it's someone who crossed the line and called you a name you didn't like, it's whatever. But if it's lying to me, you'll be "forgiven", but you won't be included in much, if anything at all.

5) How do you apologize to an ESTP?
Let them know that you truly feel bad and that you messed up. It takes time for me to trust you again. It all depends on the situation though. Give me a handshake too

6) How does an ESTP apologize to you?
Touch is key. I let them know I screwed up and that if it was truly a bad thing that I did then they have all the right in the world to still be mad at me even after apologizing. I might buy them a small gift or pay for something for them just to show I care. Sounds shallow, I know.

7) Do ESTP's like to cuddle?
Ohhhhhh YEAH! I spent an hour and a half last night cuddling with a girl by a fire. That's a long time for me to not be moving around, but I didn't care. I was with a girl I liked.

8) Describe what a romantic evening might look like through the ESTP perspective?
Witty and intelligent conversation is key. I like a nice dinner and then a movie. After that, we can hang out on the beach or take a walk in nature.

9) Do ESTP's like to clean (ie: chores)?
I don't mind it. If it has to be done, then I'll do it. As long as I have music going, I can get through a mundane task.

10) Do ESTP's like to be touched? (IE: hugged, pat on the shoulder, etc..)
Definitely. It's action. Words are nice, but to show what you mean by shaking a hand or hugging makes the interaction 10x better. Cuddling is nice too ;D

11) Do ESTP's ever get nervous around someone they are trying to impress?
If I'm really conscientious about the person and observe them, then I get distracted and can't be myself. But when I'm in control and not too concerned about the person then I can let loose and crack the jokes or make conversation. Somehow the person I'm targeting joins in and then I make her the center of my attention.

12) How does an ESTP parent act? (Really involved in your children's life?)
No idea.

13) As an ESTP, is there anything you struggle with?
When it comes to relationships and friendships, I almost feel like I have to ask personal questions when it comes to silence. I can talk about my surroundings and crack jokes all I want, but that just makes the other person seem like the audience. It's hard for me to think about questions to ask them personally because I know the answers to them already. That's a weakness of mine.

14) As an ESTP, is there anything you have wanted to change about yourself (not physical)?
I sometimes wish I could be more expressive about emotions, but then I think to myself that it's not necessarily a bad thing. I'm able to think in crisis situations and figure out how to control the crisis, as opposed to just running around and screaming.

15) What is your biggest regret? (Do you even have any regrets?)
I was a player in high school. I would date girls that I had known for quite a while and then end the relationship abruptly. I felt like a jerk because of it and would often avoid the girls to not hear what I had caused. I have apologized to them since then and are friends with them.

16) What do you love about life?
I like that you can choose what do to. You're in control of yourself and you can go out and explore the world. There are so many cultures, cities, people, and experiences waiting for you and you are the person who can make it happen.

17) What do you hate about life?
People who think life is just a one track way from being born to dying. They follow the stereotypical view of how to live. Go to school, meet a lover, get married, grow old, and die. Change it up and do something different. I've been in conflicts before with people because they don't do something the way I do it. And my way is wrong even though it works. It's those types of people who can't value people for who they are and their opinions. To sum it up, I hate narrow-minded people.

18) How important are 'goals'?
Goals are very important to me. I want to be successful and be well-known. But there's not a single path that leads you there. There are several ways to get to that goal. I like to be flexible about getting to that goal. Otherwise, you miss out on the good things.

19) How important are 'people' in regards to you?
There are two types of people to me. 1) there are the people who can do things with you and have fun in the moment, but not have an intimate relationship with them. And 2) There are those who you can have fun with and also be personal with. I have a handful of people from the second group that I never get tired of hanging out with and can truly be myself around. Those are the ones that are really important to me.

20) Do you ever get emotional?
Very rarely. Sometimes I hold things in and it adds up to an emotional outburst. I'm working on it, though. When I'm stressed, I get rid of it by working out - jogging or hitting the punching bag. It works wonders.
21) How important is 'acceptance' (social)?

1) How do ESTP's show that they care?
If I don't care, what happens is that I ignore them and don't pretend that I do care.

2) What are some good ways to show an ESTP that you care?
What you don't do is try and help unless it's necasarry, it's insulting otherwise. Also, genuinely care, if you don't genuinely care, I will notice. etc

3) What are some common ESTP pet-peeves? (what annoys you?)
Neuroticism, lies told because of cowardice.

4) Do ESTP's forgive often?
The invisible limit rings bells. What happens is that someone will be a dick repeatedly, and eventually they just get cut off entirely and treated with pure indifference.

5) How do you apologize to an ESTP?
Say sorry only if you're genuinely sorry. Otherwise shut up and carry on, don't worry about it, I'm not.

6) How does an ESTP apologize to you?
Skills, face to face appology usually.

7) Do ESTP's like to cuddle?
Yeah, we're pretty awesome at it.

8) Describe what a romantic evening might look like through the ESTP perspective?
Some good food out at a restaraunt, a nice relaxing moonlit walk through a park. A kiss at your door...

9) Do ESTP's like to clean (ie: chores)?
What I find is that I hate tidying and organising my living space. But if anything is dirty (there IS a difference), that will get cleaned up IMMEDIATELY.

10) Do ESTP's like to be touched? (IE: hugged, pat on the shoulder, etc..)
In general yes, but if I have no idea who you are at all, I will quietly check my pockets to make sure you haven't stolen anything.

11) Do ESTP's ever get nervous around someone they are trying to impress?
What's that 5th word? Also, I can't be bothered to conciously impress people, so it's unlikely that the 5th word ever happens to me.

12) How does an ESTP parent act? (Really involved in your children's life?)
Can't help you. I am not a parent, my dad is probably an ESTP too but we were seperated whilst I was growing up (between 6 and 18). My mum is an ISFP or something like that.

13) As an ESTP, is there anything you struggle with?
Not procrastinating.

14) As an ESTP, is there anything you have wanted to change about yourself (not physical)?
no

15) What is your biggest regret? (Do you even have any regrets?)
I don't regret anything that I can think of. It's all an experience.

16) What do you love about life?
Fire is pretty cool. But seriously, I like throwing myself into new things without looking (not fire though, that would be bad). Generally experiencing new things and the like.

17) What do you hate about life?
I've never thought about it. I do not have the time to waste.

18) How important are 'goals'?
Now that depends on the goal sir. I have general goals which I take seriously (be awesome/rich/powerful, etc). More specific goals like doing well in an exam are only important if they help me in a different goal that I do care about.

19) How important are 'people' in regards to you?
I get bored by myself. If someone needs my help what happens is that I drop everything less important and help them.

20) Do you ever get emotional?
I shed a solitary tear over the last episode of Scrubs.

21) How important is 'acceptance' (social)?
Not at all, what happens if people don't like me is that I find new people. The only exceptions are family, CLOSE friends, and people with more authority in the subject matter than myself.

1) How do ESTP's show that they care?
- When I'm there and I want to help. It makes me feel better if I try and help.

2) What are some good ways to show an ESTP that you care?
- I personally like Gifts that mean something to me or I reallly really like. I also like when you try to spend time with me, not overly obsessive but keeps in contact.

3) What are some common ESTP pet-peeves? (what annoys you?)
- Negative things annoy me.

4) Do ESTP's forgive often?
- Only to the people I know personally. People outside my circle, "this may be the last time we talk".

5) How do you apologize to an ESTP?
- Straight up and tell it like it is. No beating around the bush. Look me into the eyes. It shows me you are really sorry or whatever.

6) How does an ESTP apologize to you?
- Straight up saying sorry. With a little bit of side-arm-punches and funny faces here and there.

7) Do ESTP's like to cuddle?
- Almost all time. Need it like medicine. Even a high five lets me know you're cool, if not.. well, maybe next time.

8) Describe what a romantic evening might look like through the ESTP perspective?
- Sitting down under a Heat-Lamp while drinking our favorite drink, on a couch, where there is absolutely great music playing from the speakers all around us. People are around us as well, but sometimes they don't realize that they are in a public place. And we're talking, we're talking about the thing we talk about. conversing and there's a amazing view of the city..

9) Do ESTP's like to clean (ie: chores)?
- I do it when I need to. Lol

10) Do ESTP's like to be touched? (IE: hugged, pat on the shoulder, etc..)
- Yea, as long as its not creepy or trying to take my wallet or for long periods of times by the same Sex.

11) Do ESTP's ever get nervous around someone they are trying to impress?
- Yea, i get nervous. It feels good to me though. It reminds me that this person is the person i want to get to know.

12) How does an ESTP parent act? (Really involved in your children's life?)
- Not sure. I'm not a Parent. But I've been taking care of kids and I guess my Parent life would be super playful and talkative and lots of moving around.

13) As an ESTP, is there anything you struggle with?
- Just like a human-beings, we.. I struggle with everything. But there's one particular thing I don't fancy.. Coffee. It keeps me up at night when I'm trying to go to sleep. It sucks.

14) As an ESTP, is there anything you have wanted to change about yourself (not physical)?
- The way I talk. I wanna talk very little and convey my point quickly and clearly as possible. And I want to.. I just want to talk a whole lot better.

15) What is your biggest regret? (Do you even have any regrets?)
- I regret not bringing my toothbrush with me this weekend... Long weekend no toothbrush.

16) What do you love about life?
- Everything. Everything is here and its here for me to grab. Music is cool.

17) What do you hate about life?
- Hate.

18) How important are 'goals'?
- Important enough that I remember them on a day-to-day bases. And it feels good to accomplish

19) How important are 'people' in regards to you?
- They are in my top 5 important list. So, it's super important. I dislike it when I'm alone for a long periods of time. People recharge me.

20) Do you ever get emotional?
- When the time calls for it, but I try not to get way to emotional.

21) How important is 'acceptance' (social)?
- Without it, who will people look up to.

1) How do ESTP's show that they care? Compliments, Encouragement

2) What are some good ways to show an ESTP that you care? Being, complimented, encourgared, admired

3) What are some common ESTP pet-peeves? undecisvie people, inconsideration

4) Do ESTP's forgive often? I do forgive easily and I beleive in second chances, but I make a mental note &
think different of that person

5) How do you apologize to an ESTP? oops sorry

6) How does an ESTP apologize to you? My bad

7) Do ESTP's like to cuddle? Absolutely, I love it

8) Describe what a romantic evening might look like through the ESTP perspective? Carnival, Dinner, Movie

9) Do ESTP's like to clean (ie: chores)? Every now and then

10) Do ESTP's like to be touched? I love to be touched

11) Do ESTP's ever get nervous around someone they are trying to impress? only when I come across a very attractive women, but other than that I dont get nervous I'll just be myself

12) How does an ESTP parent act? My parents arent estp's, therefore I cant answer this question

13) As an ESTP, is there anything you struggle with? Impatience,

14) As an ESTP, is there anything you have wanted to change about yourself? be more patient

15) What is your biggest regret? Not discovering my personality type in the past

16) What do you love about life? Everything(Wildlife, Culture)

17) What do you hate about life? Bills, Taxes, Stressful Jobs

18) How important are 'goals'? Very important, they're the reasons I wake up

19) How important are 'people' in regards to you? tons of value

20) Do you ever get emotional? Sometimes yes, but I get over it eventually

21) How important is 'acceptance' (social)? acceptance from people I have chemistry with means alot to me, but in general its not that important

1) How do ESTP's show that they care?
- I show people I care true action, I can wright them somthing personal, buy them somthing, give a backrub, when I realy care abute some one I often give a hug to them means a lot for me.

2) What are some good ways to show an ESTP that you care?
- Buy me somthing that I dident even think I liket, give me a hug, show me the world one on one, take me on an adventure, present me to your life and show me the small things, tell me abute your self and let me get to know you better by trusting me

3) What are some common ESTP pet-peeves? (what annoys you?)
- Hate when people need to argument on every thing and waste time, usless people whit no skill in communication, People ho waist ther life on WOW

4) Do ESTP's forgive often?
- I give people often a nother chance, but I have a moral to go by the rule "3 strikes and your out"

5) How do you apologize to an ESTP?
- Just show me whit face expressions that you are soory and expain why and how

6) How does an ESTP apologize to you?
- I go crazy If I cant get to apologize to person I care abute, people I dont care abute isent that importent

7) Do ESTP's like to cuddle?
- Yes, whit the gender I like (girls), a hug from boys is ok but not to mutch

8) Describe what a romantic evening might look like through the ESTP perspective?
- Somthing classic and one on one, whit a talk abute me and the other person whit good food, and good drinks and a warm room whit lights low whit calm meditation music or oriental music on. Maby somtimes just a bed and a arm around your partner

9) Do ESTP's like to clean (ie: chores)?
-I do clean but its not in my 100 favorit things I like to do or want to do, but its somthing I just do it

10) Do ESTP's like to be touched? (IE: hugged, pat on the shoulder, etc..)
- Ofc, we live true are 5 senses allmost all the time, so being touched is ofc importent for me/us. Its somthing I connect whit becus its feals like I desserved it

11) Do ESTP's ever get nervous around someone they are trying to impress?
- I did befor but not anny more, I tend to make them come to me insted

12) How does an ESTP parent act? (Really involved in your children's life?)
- Love children

13) As an ESTP, is there anything you struggle with?
- I struggel whit finding my path in life and place and want somthing more out of it, this is becus I get bored so easly, tho I might have the most exiting job ever made (Travel guide)

14) As an ESTP, is there anything you have wanted to change about yourself (not physical)?
- I want to be the calm person that can connect whit people whit out realy needing to talk that mutch

15) What is your biggest regret? (Do you even have any regrets?)
- I have lots of regrets but they all come from bad experiences whit school, money and girls and some out burst of anger

16) What do you love about life?
- I love the small things and the moments I share whit friends and family

17) What do you hate about life?
- Money, people that make other poeple suffer

18) How important are 'goals'?
- Not mutch, bad at setting goals

19) How important are 'people' in regards to you?
- People are the most inntressting things in the world and means the most to me

20) Do you ever get emotional?
- I get them from diffrent small things, jellusi is the new yellow in my life

21) How important is 'acceptance' (social)?
- Alfa and Omega

1) How do ESTP's show that they care? "Im present" great answer! that and doing the little things for people that even though they may not be these grand gestures, sometimes its just enough to show you care.

2) What are some good ways to show an ESTP that you care? its the little things for me. i dated this guy once who knew i liked the toilet paper "over" and hated it "under" sooo he'd make sure it was the way i liked it before id come over. as crazy as that is, going that little extra mile shows you care. and i do the same thing right back.

3) What are some common ESTP pet-peeves? (what annoys you?) i can not stand when people take FOREVER to get to the point of what they are trying to say....spit it out already!! i also hate retarded drivers...ohh the road rage!! plus i live in jersey..sooo yehhh. and liars, i hate liars. besides i can always tell when someone is lying to me, so dont even try it.

4) Do ESTP's forgive often? yeh, it may not be right away but eventually i will forgive. keep in mind, no one walks all over me and you dont get many chances to keep fucking up. betray my trust though and your done.

5) How do you apologize to an ESTP? just say you were in the wrong. plain and simple.

6) How does an ESTP apologize to you? if im in the wrong, i have no problem owning up to it, but if your offended by some comment i made and expect an apology...umm yeh get the sand out of your vaginia.

7) Do ESTP's like to cuddle? yessss!! very much so. until i fall alseep, then get on your own side of the bed lol

8) Describe what a romantic evening might look like through the ESTP perspective? actually going out and DOING something...and then doing me

9) Do ESTP's like to clean (ie: chores)? oh god i hate it. its right up there with laundry. but hey, no one wants live in filth soo i have no choice lol

10) Do ESTP's like to be touched? (IE: hugged, pat on the shoulder, etc..) mmhhmm ohh yes touch me please!! seriously though, im very affectionate lol

11) Do ESTP's ever get nervous around someone they are trying to impress? nah. i dont TRY to impress anyone. im just me, which impresses just about anyone i meet anyway.

12) How does an ESTP parent act? (Really involved in your children's life?) idk, i dont have kids. but i have a nephew that i watch often. im pretty much just a big kid myself and i adore being around him. but when he acts up, ill address it. hes a pretty good kid though.

13) As an ESTP, is there anything you struggle with? patience and the ability to see like 5 steps ahead. i guess just planning in general.

14) As an ESTP, is there anything you have wanted to change about yourself (not physical)? i do wish i was a little more organized. i try but it lasts about 2-3 days lol

15) What is your biggest regret? (Do you even have any regrets?) nada. live and learn baby!

16) What do you love about life? all the possibilites. if your pro-active life gives you the tools to get what you want. life is what you make it.

17) What do you hate about life? the daily grind, the rat-race, the routine of everyday life. i dont often get stuck in that rut though.

18) How important are 'goals'? extremely. how can you ever get where you want to go without some sort of goal or something to work for? you gotta make your own luck, ya know.

19) How important are 'people' in regards to you? i enjoy meeting new people. i like to network, you never know who gonna meet and what can happen from that.

20) Do you ever get emotional? nah, not so much. granted, we all have our days and sometimes unsavory events happen in life but i generally am less emotional than most people.

21) How important is 'acceptance' (social)? could really give a rats ass what anyone thinks of me.

Thanks for answering questions. It seems some are hipocrits in a sense. They don't like lyers are people that are flaky, but ESTPs are that way? Unless I'm wrong. But, you guys are wonderful in so many ways. I looove having fun. No one else around me is that way.

holy shit. i can't believe i answered all that.