My husband has been getting minor anxiety at work - he isn't able to maintain eye contact with a few female co-workers of his ( he's usually very self assure so this confuses him) so he ends up looking down when he talks to them to avoid eye contact - and now he thinks that they think that he's looking at their chest - he was having anxiety over this for about half a year . I think what happen was he realizes that by avoiding eye contact he may be inadvertently committing a social taboo. The taboo triggers Fe, which is sensitive to disruptions within a community (his office). To verify whether these thoughts are unfounded he'd have to ask the coworkers (Se), which would risk further social awkwardness and future suspicion. Fe probably vetoed the decision by saying it's not worth the risk of losing the trust he currently has among his coworkers. This leaves him with his Ti and Ni, which have the potential of running amok in his mind by concocting crazier theoriesYep, haha, he is fighting an ISTJ supervisor right now, who keeps telling him to learn to take no for an answer. He is an 873 INFJ with strong Ti, so he keeps softly cornering her and challenging her authority right and left, which needless to say drives her Si/Te nuts. She can't fire him, cause she needs him, but she imposes limitations, procedures and boundaries, needlessly withholds resources... which pisses off his Fe, and sends him off on an Ni-Ti carousel.... so he keeps coming up with subtle and creative ways to undermine her efforts (almost like an ENTP would, except in Ni domino style, where a single action sets off a chain of events)... so yeah, NiTi loops we do have.
What do your loops look like?
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