Likewise.I have to like the person very, very much to be comfortably quiet around them. I have to trust the relationship.
I used to be like that too, and then I realized how irrational it is. So I've toyed with just shutting up and seeing what the other person does (if we don't know each other that well). I've also played around with just slowing the talking speed down since that makes everyone more relaxed. Social skills are a fun thing to play with.Likewise.
When there's silence in someones company...I feel the need to talk even more than usual so I don't feel exposed.I can only be quiet with really good friend, that know me well.
I'm working on that. I'm doing the part where I slow talking speed down so people feel more relaxed. Got to reach the feeling of comfort even if other person doesn't speak. Ah that will be selftorture lol.I used to be like that too, and then I realized how irrational it is. So I've toyed with just shutting up and seeing what the other person does (if we don't know each other that well). I've also played around with just slowing the talking speed down since that makes everyone more relaxed. Social skills are a fun thing to play with.
Sounds like me when I am "figuring someone out" (=possible prospect). Sounds promising for you.... If you want a relationship that is.I"m just curious. I'm not a young girl, but I do like someone very much, who is an entp. Around everyone else he is very talkative, but around me, he is very quiet. Hangs around me a lot, but doesn't say much. I find myself the same way around him.
Sometimes when I get high I get really self-aware and notice my ENTP qualities and it trips me out and I tend to shut up and sit there awkwardly trying to think of something regular to say, which I can never think of, haha.
This usually has little to do with personality type and more to do with him not being that skilled in the ladies department. I used to be like that until I made it a conscious goal of mine to get over. It's a "fear of saying something stupid in front of this important person". I got over it by talking to five new girls everyday. Sounds crazy but it worked. I am now a ladies manI"m just curious. I'm not a young girl, but I do like someone very much, who is an entp. Around everyone else he is very talkative, but around me, he is very quiet. Hangs around me a lot, but doesn't say much. I find myself the same way around him.