lately i've been noticing it more but i very rarely say no..
i found myself making myself available to people when i much prefer to be alone/have a quiet one
i think somewhere underneath i don't want to disappoint people (and will put people before myself) so a lot of the time i'll hang out or do things that i might not necessarily feel like doing at the time
this is ok most of the time but i find very quickly that i become snappy and on some occasions a hint of cocky-ness (which i absolutely hate!) . at this point i realise that ive over done it and need time to be introverted and alone
its a weird balance of wanting to be alone yet still having this need for people and not disappointing them
anyone (/other infj's) relate?
i found myself making myself available to people when i much prefer to be alone/have a quiet one
i think somewhere underneath i don't want to disappoint people (and will put people before myself) so a lot of the time i'll hang out or do things that i might not necessarily feel like doing at the time
this is ok most of the time but i find very quickly that i become snappy and on some occasions a hint of cocky-ness (which i absolutely hate!) . at this point i realise that ive over done it and need time to be introverted and alone
its a weird balance of wanting to be alone yet still having this need for people and not disappointing them
anyone (/other infj's) relate?