I was tested as ENTP couple of times and I knew that I used Fe and Ti. But unlike ENTP I am kind of softie, value harmony and don't like to argue that much. I like thoughtful debates. But my mind is kind of a mess. So I started to think maybe I was INFJ? Please, help me here. I thought I was a perceiver cause I am very soft, prefer going with the flow and don't usually mind if someone controls the shit, but I read somewhere that INFJ are the least judgers. I came from the country with strict gender roles, but I don't actually want to struggle with that nor I want to change anything, cause I find it beneficial (I hate making important decisions, hate much of responsibility, it would be a nightmare if controlled everything). So I am okay with that. I consider myself extremely smart, I get easily bored, but I am also actually very tactful, polite, smiling, friendly, generally kind. Actually I care about the opinion of close people to me. I am sensitive and hate personal criticism. I hate hurting people. I know exactly that I can hurt them if I speak my mind, so I decided to stay delicate in order to not make other people hate me. I also hate overemotional people who take everything too seriously too. I actually like when people tell me things directly, i appreciate this, but I, myself, can't do that lol. Also I possess childish exterior and people think I am irresponsible, even though deep inside I am very serious. I have period when I don't need anyone, I want to escape. I don't have many friends cause talking to people puts energy out of me. Except very interesting people, which I meet very rarely, around 1 per year. I also doubt myself everytime about doing something important. I look at the pessimistic side quite often. I consider myself as deep, with rich inner world, and I am quite emotional, but don't like showing it to others, cause I hate being seen as vulnerable. If I do something that could hurt others,I feel guilty and I despise myself. I do white lies quite often. Do I have strong moral principles? I guess no. I like to seek knowledge, I was kind of a lazy genius at school, but now I started to feel like I lack energy to start things off. I used to be very ambitious and goal-driven, by the way. I also liked to plan future and really imagined how things would be. I am new here, so I am wondering, is it similar to you, fellows INFJ?