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Whats it like to be in a relationship with or as a entp woman?

and more specifically what's it like to be a female entp with a male xxfx?
 

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Whats it like to be in a relationship with or as a entp woman?
- Cool. Specially if you're 7w8. You're the woman whose just got away. XD Your ex will still message you. But you will block them.

and more specifically what's it like to be a female entp with a male xxfx?
- Well, he said i don't have feelings. And he's frustrated about me because I'm not the girl she imagined me i am. XD hahahahah. He found I'm a guy lol. XD
 

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As far as how it is to be in a relationship with an ENTP girl. We are pretty chill and let you do what you want (within reason). We are not very demanding. You will not hear us try to structure your life or tell you how to live it. We will not complain if you want to hang with your friends (as long as you remember to hang with us occasionally). We are good girlfriends to bring along with you to hang with the guys, as your friends will most likely not be upset we are there because, once they realize it, they do not need to sensor themselves or cater to us so they can relax. We are not as good being forced to hang with the "wives and girlfriends" while the guys talk when getting together as couples though. We most likely will have more in common with the guys than the girls, especially if they are girly-girls.

I personally have not had a lot of luck with feelers. They usually complain that I do not give them enough emotionally. I also found I lost attraction to them because they were too clingy and needy. I am independent and am attracted to guys who are independent and confident. I am sure it was the Feelers I was dating, I am sure there are male Feelers who are independent and confident.
 

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My favourite thing is that I'm not the corny/cheesy type, so when I do make romantic gestures, it's seen as a much bigger deal in my partner's eyes.

and more specifically what's it like to be a female entp with a male xxfx?
I think they want me to nurture them a little bit more than I do. Awesome guys, but the last Fi-user I dated was surprisingly manipulative, somehow threatened by me, and didn't like the fact that I was quite independent of him. He needed a lot of reassurance and it became exhausting. If I was to date a feeler again, he'd have to be quite confident.
 

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I suppose it depends if you're matured enough (in a general sense) or otherwise. I hated feelings that keep me from thinking or functioning clearly, and so for the longest time as a young adult, I've kept myself from committing 'until I am ready'. I also have a constant need to observe and theorise what makes a relationship successful in the side lines, for fear of getting trapped/independence sacrificed/having an emotional baggage as it is recurrent in the household I grew up in.

I have committed myself eventually, but I'm only in it for the long-term. I made sure my independence and strength of character is never a liability, but encouraged or understood. I see it as having two competent people who want to grow together. I have ambitious plans of creating/inventing things together with my partner, which is always exciting. We support each other, and always communicate through the creases. Sometimes I am practical about our relationship, but my intention is the same - I declare I care deeply about this person. I think that takes a bit of maturity for any ENTP, for someone who is emotionally vulnerable.

More specifically whats it like to be a female entp with male xxfx?

I prefer intuitive types. I honestly thought that I was into intellects, but while I admire them, I am aware of the friction it may cause after talking to a lot of people in my engineering cohort as I have a bit of a competitive edge. I'm in the long haul with an INFP, and to my surprise, it's been great. I used to find people in this type incredibly simplistic and run around in circles, but a mature one would support me emotionally. That's kind of what I needed, emotional security. It makes me feel safe, and that is enough to chase away the cloud over my mind.
 

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Whats it like to be in a relationship (...) as a entp woman?
Pretty laid-back. No preasures, just going with the flow. We might chicken out if asked to commit way too early. I personally have a tendancy to fly away as soon as my independence is threatened, but maybe it's just me.

And more specifically what's it like to be a female entp with a male xxfx?
Feelers are my cup of tea. For the past 5 years I've just had relationships or flings with FJs or FPs - but Fi and Fe are way different when it comes to dealing with ENTPs. I personally think FJs suit us way better because we can relate to them
 
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Hmmm...I like my own time and friends, so you will have your own time and opportunities for your stuff. When we are together it is fun and spontaneous, but intense as well. I'm pretty playful, but get told my sarcasm is almost OTT sometimes, so he can't tell if I am being serious or not. I don't feel so comfortable making emotional declarations, so perhaps it is less of a secure feeling for my partner, though I do make grand gestures, which are quirky.

And more specifically what's it like to be a female entp with a male xxfx?

I am just trying this out. My boyfriend is an ENFP, so a lot in common. It is putting me out of my comfort zone for sure, but not necessarily a bad thing. I have not been with a feeler before, so the high level of emotion/passion and declarations of feeling/love for friends throw me off balance. He talks openly about past relationships exploring out loud the elements of them which is awkward for me. But he also is very demonstrative - touching and kissing me in front of friends and others, and pulling me towards him in bed, which feels intimate and I wouldn't necessarily initiate but also it turns out like and maybe secretly crave. We'll see...
 

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As far as how it is to be in a relationship with an ENTP girl. We are pretty chill and let you do what you want (within reason). We are not very demanding. You will not hear us try to structure your life or tell you how to live it. We will not complain if you want to hang with your friends (as long as you remember to hang with us occasionally). We are good girlfriends to bring along with you to hang with the guys, as your friends will most likely not be upset we are there because, once they realize it, they do not need to sensor themselves or cater to us so they can relax. We are not as good being forced to hang with the "wives and girlfriends" while the guys talk when getting together as couples though. We most likely will have more in common with the guys than the girls, especially if they are girly-girls.

I personally have not had a lot of luck with feelers. They usually complain that I do not give them enough emotionally. I also found I lost attraction to them because they were too clingy and needy. I am independent and am attracted to guys who are independent and confident. I am sure it was the Feelers I was dating, I am sure there are male Feelers who are independent and confident.
I second this! Probably why no one ever broke up with me, I've never given them the reason to do so.
I've been with feelers before, and i wouldn't be with one any time soon, it just doesn't work for me...perhaps in the future and if i find some emotionally stable feeler.
 
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