Whats it like to be in a relationship as an entp woman?
I suppose it depends if you're matured enough (in a general sense) or otherwise. I hated feelings that keep me from thinking or functioning clearly, and so for the longest time as a young adult, I've kept myself from committing 'until I am ready'. I also have a constant need to observe and theorise what makes a relationship successful in the side lines, for fear of getting trapped/independence sacrificed/having an emotional baggage as it is recurrent in the household I grew up in.
I have committed myself eventually, but I'm only in it for the long-term. I made sure my independence and strength of character is never a liability, but encouraged or understood. I see it as having two competent people who want to grow together. I have ambitious plans of creating/inventing things together with my partner, which is always exciting. We support each other, and always communicate through the creases. Sometimes I am practical about our relationship, but my intention is the same - I declare I care deeply about this person. I think that takes a bit of maturity for any ENTP, for someone who is emotionally vulnerable.
More specifically whats it like to be a female entp with male xxfx?
I prefer intuitive types. I honestly thought that I was into intellects, but while I admire them, I am aware of the friction it may cause after talking to a lot of people in my engineering cohort as I have a bit of a competitive edge. I'm in the long haul with an INFP, and to my surprise, it's been great. I used to find people in this type incredibly simplistic and run around in circles, but a mature one would support me emotionally. That's kind of what I needed, emotional security. It makes me feel safe, and that is enough to chase away the cloud over my mind.