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Ever since high school I've always fallen for ENFP guys. Their warm and friendly personalites draw me in like a moth to the flame. I've befriended many ENFPs in my lifetime, and have had some pretty wonderful relationships with them in the past.
But the truth of the matter is i'm an INFJ, which makes us different in a lot of big ways. For example, I'm sure that I could be very happy in a romantic relationship with an ENFP, but would an ENFP get too bored with me? Would my personality even be the least bit appealing to them?Do romantic relationships between these two personalites really work out? or am I barking up the entirely wrong tree?
My personality is pretty textbook INFJ. I'm nurturing and warm, but also stubborn and intelligent. I'm a deep thinker, always trying to find deeper meaning in everything. I'm a novelist, artist, and one-time movie actress, so I get very passionate about things, especially philosophy and religion.
While I am an introvert, I have a large yellow streak of outgoing playfulness. I think that's what attracts me most to ENFP's. I share their love of life and adventure. I love spontaneity. Playing Frisbee in the rain, Taking a random roadtrip just because, karaoke bars, bungee jumping, I'm up for anything so long as it does not conflict with my morals.
I guess the bottom line is, Should an INFJ like me pursue romantic relationships with ENFPS or will they just get bored of me?
But the truth of the matter is i'm an INFJ, which makes us different in a lot of big ways. For example, I'm sure that I could be very happy in a romantic relationship with an ENFP, but would an ENFP get too bored with me? Would my personality even be the least bit appealing to them?Do romantic relationships between these two personalites really work out? or am I barking up the entirely wrong tree?
My personality is pretty textbook INFJ. I'm nurturing and warm, but also stubborn and intelligent. I'm a deep thinker, always trying to find deeper meaning in everything. I'm a novelist, artist, and one-time movie actress, so I get very passionate about things, especially philosophy and religion.
While I am an introvert, I have a large yellow streak of outgoing playfulness. I think that's what attracts me most to ENFP's. I share their love of life and adventure. I love spontaneity. Playing Frisbee in the rain, Taking a random roadtrip just because, karaoke bars, bungee jumping, I'm up for anything so long as it does not conflict with my morals.
I guess the bottom line is, Should an INFJ like me pursue romantic relationships with ENFPS or will they just get bored of me?