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Do you have a history of running away from relationships or people you're interested in? Please explain why(and what causes this) or why not.
Haha, that would be a good twist to this. :crazy:I rather have an elaborate history of running from people who are interested in ME!:wink:
Oh gosh, that's crude LOL Hahahaha way to slip it in there that the ladies are pounding on your door :crazy:I usually get grossed out whenever a girl approaches me, I don't really know why, probably because I need lots of comfort to be able to open up and they don't care about that, just sex sex sex :crazy:
True, I was telling a friend recently...i want to consume and be consumed by somebody, that's the way i feel about 'love', I would likely 'lose' myself in this person and like i said on another thread here, i don't know if i would survive a heart-breakI've never dated much, partly because I was never interested in dating (life has too much to explore to be tied down!), but partly also because I've always been afraid of being hurt or of becoming too attached to someone and losing myself in him.
When I was younger, any time a guy showed the least bit of interest in me, I'd run as fast as I could in the other direction.
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That was high school for me. HahaI usually get grossed out whenever a girl approaches me, I don't really know why, probably because I need lots of comfort to be able to open up and they don't care about that, just sex sex sex :crazy:
I don't run away tho. What I do is, I "test" people. Which usually makes them run away. :crazy:I don't do well with women who don't show enough, what I consider genuine, interest in me to pave a foundation on which to trust them. Not that I believe it is their fault.
And people say INFJs are passive. :wink:if my instincts are in favour however - very rarely, but it has happened - they i pursue directly so they don't get away.
Ok, i dunno if telling a guy you liked, you like him can count as pursuing, because i've never had a problem telling a dude that (only 3 times i think). Once upon a time i told the wrong type and he 'fled'. He still apologizes to me till this day.i run when people show interest and my instincts are not in favour...i guess most ppl would go out awhile to test it out abd then drop them, but i know i couldn't dump anyone, so it's easier to run andsave then the pain of having led them on.
if my instincts are in favour however - very rarely, but it has happened - they i pursue directly so they don't get away.