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I've heard that many times we can rush into saying "I love you" and those words can actually make partners lazy as the focus may shift away from the quality of actions being done in the relationship. In other words, now all a partner has to say is "I love you", rather than show it.
ENFPs, how long do you usually take before saying "I love you" in a committed romantic relationship? Do you wait until you both know each other well? Do you wait until you've gone through major upheavals and disagreements so you can first see how good you two are at resolving them? Do you wait for a certain amount of time to pass or wait for the other person to say it first?
Has someone ever told you "I love you" but you could not at the time, reciprocate? Or were you ever on the other side of that scenario?
When is the right time for first saying "I love you"? And what is your motivation for doing so?
ENFPs, how long do you usually take before saying "I love you" in a committed romantic relationship? Do you wait until you both know each other well? Do you wait until you've gone through major upheavals and disagreements so you can first see how good you two are at resolving them? Do you wait for a certain amount of time to pass or wait for the other person to say it first?
Has someone ever told you "I love you" but you could not at the time, reciprocate? Or were you ever on the other side of that scenario?
When is the right time for first saying "I love you"? And what is your motivation for doing so?