This happened to me today, me an a friend of mine were editing a film like we do every day. What we do is watch the cut so far, and do passes and make sure all the cuts are perfect.
Anyways we came across a cut I didn't like, I told him to go back to the cut, he went back and I remember being a little bit upfront about it, not necessarily rude but upfront. He wasn't really doing what I asked him, He thought I was talking about something else, I have a really hard time explaining things to people sometimes.
It got to the point where he just said "stop," and that's when I basically shut down. I stopped talking, I spent a few hours going over what had happened in my head, it completely baffled me, because we do this all the time and he's never shut my two cents out like that. Later we were talking and he said that I kept saying "I hate it" he said I said it like 3 times, and I don't even recall saying I hated it, just to change it to make it better.
Everything in my mind from my personal value system to my social habits to the way I speak, none of it points to me saying that i hate something blatantly like that not in a joking manner. So now i'm at a point where I don't know who to trust, myself or my friend, one of us is delusional.
What should i do guys, I haven't been able to work all day because of this, and i'm nearing the point where I just want to leave the house for a while.
Anyways we came across a cut I didn't like, I told him to go back to the cut, he went back and I remember being a little bit upfront about it, not necessarily rude but upfront. He wasn't really doing what I asked him, He thought I was talking about something else, I have a really hard time explaining things to people sometimes.
It got to the point where he just said "stop," and that's when I basically shut down. I stopped talking, I spent a few hours going over what had happened in my head, it completely baffled me, because we do this all the time and he's never shut my two cents out like that. Later we were talking and he said that I kept saying "I hate it" he said I said it like 3 times, and I don't even recall saying I hated it, just to change it to make it better.
Everything in my mind from my personal value system to my social habits to the way I speak, none of it points to me saying that i hate something blatantly like that not in a joking manner. So now i'm at a point where I don't know who to trust, myself or my friend, one of us is delusional.
What should i do guys, I haven't been able to work all day because of this, and i'm nearing the point where I just want to leave the house for a while.
