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I feel fear and courage.

I want to start over and be the person I've always wanted to be, after the most heart wrenching past, but a part of me is still scared.

I want to let go, just trust in my heart and my intuition, I deserve it after everything I had gone through, but a part of me is still scared.

I spammed the forum too much partly due to idea overload. (Hey you're not the only one who's emo, at least I tried to be more positive)

Sorry, just filling the huge void. Take care.
 

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Scared is ok. Trusting feelings and intuition instead of reasoning is sometimes like jumping of a cliff expecting to fly. Except that sometimes we actually CAN and DO fly.
 

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I spammed the forum too much partly due to idea overload.
I agree you have.

A good piece of advice I got recently was: stop overthinking.

Sometimes our inner voice goes a bit hysterical and we need a bit of a slap...The way I "slap" myself is by shutting the voice off momentarily by getting engaged or focused on something else, anything from tidying up a cupboard, doing exercise, or reading a book.

It normally helps me to go with the flow, relax and let things happen. The noise of my inner voice telling me what I should do, how I should be, what I really am like, about the future, about the past, about how I get things wrong and what if this and what if that and I wish it was that way......is deafening.

Sometimes I need space from myself, I can get so wrapped up in myself I can't hear anything or see the solution to anything.
 
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