Alright i've finally got it through my thick skull that there are actually girls that think i'm cute, and are at least semi-interested. I see more and more every day, and i'm very slowly becoming less introverted. These are all good things.
So my question is: is there a way to speed up the process of my becoming more extraverted and less socially inhibited via manipulation of my own emotions? (or any other means for that matter)
I know head types in the enneagram are motivated by fear, which has stopped me from talking to girls i've wanted to for irrational reasons that I can't even explain. Could there be a way to twist this fear to my advantage? By forcing myself to fear NOT talking to them, I know from experience that telling my friends to shinkick me if I don't talk to a girl if this is any help.
So my question is: is there a way to speed up the process of my becoming more extraverted and less socially inhibited via manipulation of my own emotions? (or any other means for that matter)
I know head types in the enneagram are motivated by fear, which has stopped me from talking to girls i've wanted to for irrational reasons that I can't even explain. Could there be a way to twist this fear to my advantage? By forcing myself to fear NOT talking to them, I know from experience that telling my friends to shinkick me if I don't talk to a girl if this is any help.