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How aware is he of his effects on his family? If he was confident in his choice in marrying his wife, then a reminder of the long-term emotional/mental/financial effects of his family (and himself) may help him. If he cannot, as opposed to 'will not', take those into account, then the cause may be deep-rooted and related to his personal growth. It would be difficult for him to think about or be there for others when there are emotional or mental burdens of his own. His lack of motivation may come from not knowing what he wants in his life, or maybe there was something about life itself that he realized in his studies in theology that led him to become more apathetic.

What is his wife even doing in this situation? If they're compatible for each other and cared for each other, she would have stepped up to the plate also. The question might actually be whether he really loves his wife.
 
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