originally i thought shyness is not something i have to 'overcome', its my personality and thats it, right? so i realized that my shyness holds me back from doing things i want to do and stops me from making new friends, opening up and just experiencing life. it also makes my life way more stressful then it needs to be! so here is a young infp's question to the much wiser, how do i overcome shyness!?? do i do the whole fake it till ya make it cuz idk if im gona make anything by faking. please help!