That was an interesting read on Si,
@PisceanReve. I think the opening of it also had the best ways to kind of deal with it:
One way is to accept that ultimately, things turn out how they turn out, regardless of how others feel, or about the giant wall of will, or the vagueries of the unknown. I think those three things are probably the basis of wisdom as a whole, perspective about what matters and what doesn't. If those things can be faced, out inferior function doesn't have a lot to hold over our head.
Of course, wisdom is hardly the easy path, and it tends to be something none of us can just "get", so the alternative is to use Ti, which I guess is in the form of coping mechanisms, and "talking ourselves down"- OK, if this is the the problem, then X, if not then Y.