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Could someone give a more concrete, maybe a table or something, to show the differences? I mean I can more than half agree with both of them, and I feel as though I switch off between them periodically or constantly.:blushed:

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I love to help people, seeing them smile gets me going
I feed off other people in a good way
I sometimes manipulate where things go in groups of people to do what I want, but it usually is a great experience for everyone, and if I don't get things my way, I hold no hard feelings
I rarely think of how to force people to do what I want
I love to notice all of the little things that everyone does and says without meaning to, and I usually use all that sensory input to my advantage.
I am usually a leader
I say things a lot of the time that can sometimes be taken as inappropriate for the circumstances but I do it so I can read someone else and see them on a deeper level without them noticing.

I do think that I am better than other people, and if people can see as logically or clearly as I could then things would be better, but I won't put anyone down because they have conflicting views with me.
I find that I either try to avoid conversations that i know i don't like the other person's viewpoint, or I will either (half and half on this one) listen to someone's view so I can give my opposing view or I will same them and little white lies will come out so I am more similar to them.



Hey sorry if that was a lot o take in! I am really new at this place and I am just trying to find my way hehe

(On a side note, I rewrote that line saying sorry like 6 times because I didn't know what would've been taken more appropriately)
 

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Could someone give a more concrete, maybe a table or something, to show the differences? I mean I can more than half agree with both of them, and I feel as though I switch off between them periodically or constantly.:blushed:

If it makes any difference:
I love to help people, seeing them smile gets me going
I feed off other people in a good way
I sometimes manipulate where things go in groups of people to do what I want, but it usually is a great experience for everyone, and if I don't get things my way, I hold no hard feelings
I rarely think of how to force people to do what I want
I love to notice all of the little things that everyone does and says without meaning to, and I usually use all that sensory input to my advantage.
I am usually a leader
I say things a lot of the time that can sometimes be taken as inappropriate for the circumstances but I do it so I can read someone else and see them on a deeper level without them noticing.

I do think that I am better than other people, and if people can see as logically or clearly as I could then things would be better, but I won't put anyone down because they have conflicting views with me.
I find that I either try to avoid conversations that i know i don't like the other person's viewpoint, or I will either (half and half on this one) listen to someone's view so I can give my opposing view or I will same them and little white lies will come out so I am more similar to them.



Hey sorry if that was a lot o take in! I am really new at this place and I am just trying to find my way hehe

(On a side note, I rewrote that line saying sorry like 6 times because I didn't know what would've been taken more appropriately)
This statement screams Fe to me, but I don't mean all people with Fe do this.
 

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@Pedromac

What you have described is a very heavy use of Fe with Ni backing it up. It is very obvious that you're an Extrovert, so there's no doubt about that. ENFJs functions in order are: Fe - Ni - Se Ti. Considering that your dominant function is obviously Fe and your secondary function is Ni, there's no doubt. Your use of secondary Ni is also very typical ENFJ.

It is decided. You are an ENFJ. ;)
 
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