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l remember having a realization like this years ago.
l used to be operating on something like ''socialize with whoever is near, even if you don't really like them'' for reasons that l'm not sure of. Maybe l had more patience then, but l think it's just how my family operates.
When l stopped doing that, l wasn't acting like a jerk by putting myself around people l wasn't interested in being around (and had more time to find ones l actually liked).
l used to be operating on something like ''socialize with whoever is near, even if you don't really like them'' for reasons that l'm not sure of. Maybe l had more patience then, but l think it's just how my family operates.
When l stopped doing that, l wasn't acting like a jerk by putting myself around people l wasn't interested in being around (and had more time to find ones l actually liked).
