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1. Do you find it hard to express your feelings to someone about them ?

2. Do your flirt can ever mean that you are just attracted toward someone or you kinda like them ?

3. Do you always think about money ?

4. Do you like to maintain life long relationships of friendship ?

5. Are most of your friendships targeted on the saying "That everybody is useful, so never break it up with them" ?

6. Do you like INFPs ?

7. When you find your crush dating someone else, and getting little intimate, do you get hurt so bad that you close all doors for them into that area of life, love ?

8. Do you cry, or feel bad if a friend leaves you without any particular reason ?

Well, I'd like if only guys answer it.
 

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Hello, I'm a girl but you asked me to answer so I will do it :happy:

1. Definitely, I'm not very in touch with my feelings.
2. Don't understand this question.
3. Not at all, ENTJs are more geared towards success, not money.
4. It's not a priority, but it'd be nice.
5. Not really. My friends are friends because they stand up for me and they are intelligent enough to not get on my nerves.
6. They're okay.
7. No, I just strategize a way to obtain my crush because I know the relationship won't last. If it seems like they have a close relationship, I'll move on.
8. I feel bad, but I get over it pretty fast.
 
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An ENTJ I know would answer like this if forced to be honest:

1. Do you find it hard to express your feelings to someone about them ?
No, but people are just rotten over feeling and I hate that I can't control my world with them.


2. Do your flirt can ever mean that you are just attracted toward someone or you kinda like them ?
The attraction is the easy part, forecasting future prospects is the tricky part


3. Do you always think about money ?
Success is nice but I'm intelligent enough to understand what it means... (Explanation about economics (this stuff is not boring or stupid plus I can succinctly show you why)...:bottom line: money is just a tool for the 21century hunter gatherer)


4. Do you like to maintain life long relationships of friendship ?
Yes. I live for the future so I like to certainity

5. Are most of your friendships targeted on the saying "That everybody is useful, so never break it up with them" ?
Those aren't friends but tools to aid success otherwise real are rare, the only one I'd share a little bit of my "Fi" with


6. Do you like INFPs ?
People are people


7. When you find your crush dating someone else, and getting little intimate, do you get hurt so bad that you close all doors for them into that area of life, love ?
*Would have talked to her already and everything would have been sealed and signed. Its either they are interested or not (I've noticed "Te" helps with getting over people since their humanity can be taken out of the person in question along with the pain; though bonding is always trickier)


8. Do you cry, or feel bad if a friend leaves you without any particular reason ?
*WTF (to the friend), simple conclusion- doucebag not worth the time of day


Well, I'd like if only guys answer it.
 

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1. Do you find it hard to express your feelings to someone about them ?

2. Do your flirt can ever mean that you are just attracted toward someone or you kinda like them ?

3. Do you always think about money ?

4. Do you like to maintain life long relationships of friendship ?

5. Are most of your friendships targeted on the saying "That everybody is useful, so never break it up with them" ?

6. Do you like INFPs ?

7. When you find your crush dating someone else, and getting little intimate, do you get hurt so bad that you close all doors for them into that area of life, love ?

8. Do you cry, or feel bad if a friend leaves you without any particular reason ?

Well, I'd like if only guys answer it.
I'll play ;)

1. No, when I choose to it's easy. Normally, I just choose not to expose my feelings.

2. I enjoy flirting. Sometimes it means something more, sometimes it doesn't.

3. Seldom actually. Money is a side effect of success. I like success.

4. Friends come and go. I have had decades long friendships, but not many.

5. Nope.

6. I don't know any INFP's in real life, but would like to.

7. Yeah, that sounds familiar... in that case, she made her choice. Seal that part of me off and move on.

8. No. That's their call, so I move on too.
 

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1. Do you find it hard to express your feelings to someone about them ?

2. Do your flirt can ever mean that you are just attracted toward someone or you kinda like them ?

3. Do you always think about money ?

4. Do you like to maintain life long relationships of friendship ?

5. Are most of your friendships targeted on the saying "That everybody is useful, so never break it up with them" ?

6. Do you like INFPs ?

7. When you find your crush dating someone else, and getting little intimate, do you get hurt so bad that you close all doors for them into that area of life, love ?

8. Do you cry, or feel bad if a friend leaves you without any particular reason ?

Well, I'd like if only guys answer it.
1. Yeah, I'm not very good at expressing my feelings unless I feel comfortable around that person.

2. My flirt usually means that I like them. I can't flirt unless I genuinely like someone. Well... I've flirted to get discounts at stores and stuff but I rarely do it unless the guy is attractive.

3. Oh yeah, I got my mind on my money and my money on my mind, everyday, as I'm killing it in the grind~

4. Certainly, it really hurts my soul when a friendship ends.

5. Uh, no... that sounds pretty manipulative to me. I'm all about quality over quantity, when it comes to friendships.

6. Yeah, my cousin is one. We make each other laugh all the time.

7. If I saw my crush with another girl, I'd probably get upset but I wouldn't show it. I don't care for games and I wouldn't want someone who didn't want me. I'd do what I needed to cut ties with him and focus on myself, and date other people, if I wanted to.

8. Yeah, that would definitely upset me.
 

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1) Express my feelings, sure if I feel the need to express my feelings to them why not? They've got to mean something to me for me to do that. Generally I would come off as reserved until I know and can figure them out better. I never used to express my feelings in the past but there are definite advantages to some expression. It depends on the person though and I don't open up to everyone with great ease.

2)I flirt with everyone irrespective of age, gender, whatever. Flirting is quite fun honestly. Sometimes it leads to more, sometimes not. But it's a fun game so long as you know your limits and boundaries.

3)No. I've got other motivations besides money. But success and universal everlasting recognition definitely (i don't mean some sort of smalltime fame either but something that people would remember forever).

4)Yes. A few. You know those who you want to maintain them with fairly soon. However if someone betrays me, screw that. I'll never be that close to them again.

5) Everyone outlives their usefulness at some point. Sometimes you have a few friends that stay friends because they've been friends with you for years and you can get along easily. I do have a lot of acquaintances more than friends.

6)Personally I don't care to know people by type or type them. I look at people based on who they are - typing someone doesn't help me as much in the real world. So I might know people that I like who are INFPs.

7) Of course not. I make myself more desirable. I've not really had that happen so far and at the age of 32 I think I'm well past crushing.

8)Hmm I honestly don't know. I've left friends never had the reverse happen.
 

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Sounds fun, we love when people ask us about ourselves!

1. Do you find it hard to express your feelings to someone about them ?
I've put lots of conscious work into developing my emotional intelligence, so it's much easier for me to express emotions and show vulnerabilit. But I still find it hard to express my feelings about someone directly to them and the stronger I feel about them the harder it is to say out loud.

2. Do your flirt can ever mean that you are just attracted toward someone or you kinda like them ?
I flirt with everyone: guys, girls, old, young. It's called banter and it's just a fun way of communicating. If I'm really attracted to a woman, she may not know for a while (I like to tease) but she can count on me to make the moves.

3. Do you always think about money ?
Rarely. I think about success (and a bit about power). Money is a side-effect.

4. Do you like to maintain life long relationships of friendship ?
It'd be nice, but this is hard to find for anyone. I'm super focused on personal growth whereas not many people are, so I don't see lifelong relationships as all that possible unless the person is as committed to growth as I am.

5. Are most of your friendships targeted on the saying "That everybody is useful, so never break it up with them" ?
No, sometimes you need to break-up with your friends if things aren't working out. I won't be rude, but I just won't spend as much time with them as before.

6. Do you like INFPs ?
Yes, they're cool.

7. When you find your crush dating someone else, and getting little intimate, do you get hurt so bad that you close all doors for them into that area of life, love ?
Not at all. I don't believe in monogamy and actually encourage girls that I'm seeing to meet other guys. I don't ask someone to forego other connections for me. Freedom and living without restrictions and just enjoying things in the moment is the healthiest way to live.

8. Do you cry, or feel bad if a friend leaves you without any particular reason ?
I'll feel a little sad or disappointed, but I get over it quick. There's no time for that.
 

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1. The expression is not the problem. The impact my words can have on people other feeling may be the one thing that withholds me from stating my feeling. After all, its inferior Fi.

2. If I think that we are on the same page, I could flirt because its humerous, and I like you therefore. I rarely flirt with someone I am attracted to, I do not know why.

3. No.

4. Yes. Trust is important to me. Also, I feel the friends I have are able to have an argument with me on a high logical and analytical level. Those people are scarce.

5. business yes, personal life no.

6. Yes. At times.

7. Yes. Happened. Closed chapter.

8. No, his loss and problem on not stating to me the reason on leaving. However, the friends I have and consider to be friends will not do this, because they know they can say these things to me. Honesty is number one.
 
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Well, All I can say is, Entj's you still got your Fe/fi active than my dear friend from whom these questions were targeted. :)
 

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1. Do you find it hard to express your feelings to someone about them?
Nope. Not many years ago I had real problems doing so, but been working on it as long as I can remember. Today feelings are similar to normal words when it comes to expressing them.

2. Do your flirt can ever mean that you are just attracted toward someone or you kinda like them?
When I flirt they've first had to get my attention. The flirting really just gives me time and opportunity to check if that someone has potential. Either way it's fun.

3. Do you always think about money?
Economically, yes. To become rich and strive to be so? No. But it's important to be economically stable and know what you spend your money on compared to how much you earn.

4. Do you like to maintain life long relationships of friendship?
Sure, as long as they have something to bring to the table. All depends on the friend. I prefer meeting new ones along the way and do not want to stay with the old friends all the time. Variation is required.

5. Are most of your friendships targeted on the saying "That everybody is useful, so never break it up with them" ?
No. I have a lot of friends that are useless in most ways of being a resource to me or my goals. They're my friends based on the history we have had together. Most of the friends I'm looking for are the ones I can target that way though.

6. Do you like INFPs?
I like people in general until they give me a reason not to. Some give me that reason fast, some takes time, and some not at all. I've met INFPs who's nice, and some I don't have a reason to spend time with.

7. When you find your crush dating someone else, and getting little intimate, do you get hurt so bad that you close all doors for them into that area of life, love?
No, I recently experienced that. Had a good, short relationship with someone that I had to let go because of us moving away, creating distance. Told her to just do what she liked and date other people if she found interest in them. Two months later we moved to the same city, and I had a hunch she was dating this guy I knew. I indirectly got it confirmed over time through my sneaky analytic sense. I was hanging around with her, knowing this, but she would never talk about it or try to hide it away as if she didn't want me to know. Disappointing, sure. But nothing much changed. She's the one taking distance while I'm just trying to be friendly and talk it out so it doesn't have to be awkward. I don't really get hurt by such things, even if I still have feelings for her. I gave up trying to close her again.

8. Do you cry, or feel bad if a friend leaves you without any particular reason?
Nope. I believe everyone has their reason, and if there's really no reason, then we couldn't actually have been friends? I respect people's decisions more than I get disappointed by them.
 

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1. Do you find it hard to express your feelings to someone about them ?

its not that I find it hard. It's more that I don't know how to bring it up. I'm not one to just start talking about feelings, but I'll talk if inquired or if the setting is right. .

2. Do your flirt can ever mean that you are just attracted toward someone or you kinda like them ?

sure. I do tend to flirt with the opposite sex quite often. It doesn't even have to be attraction.

3. Do you always think about money ?

no. Only when I have to.

4. Do you like to maintain life long relationships of friendship ?

i like lifelong relationships. I don't maintain friendship. Too much effort.

5. Are most of your friendships targeted on the saying "That everybody is useful, so never break it up with them" ?

no. And I don't particularly agree with that saying.

6. Do you like INFPs ?

sure.

7. When you find your crush dating someone else, and getting little intimate, do you get hurt so bad that you close all doors for them into that area of life, love ?

i have in the past. It's not really about getting hurt but about not wasting my time pursuing someone who is taken. I'll find someone else. She basically told me I'm second place with her actions.

8. Do you cry, or feel bad if a friend leaves you without any particular reason ?

no. Friends are disposable. I mean this as no offense to any of my friends as a lot of them are quality guys, but we both know friends come and go.

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There's no time for that.


"Ain't nobody got time for dat!" Haha. I see your posts a lot and I enjoy your values because they seem similar to mine.

Cheers!
 
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1. Do you find it hard to express your feelings to someone about them ?

Once I have decided that I want to express my feelings to a person it comes easily.


2. Do your flirt can ever mean that you are just attracted toward someone or you kinda like them ?

Of course.


3. Do you always think about money ?

No.


4. Do you like to maintain life long relationships of friendship ?

Depends on the friendship. Most of my close friendships are lifelong, though.


5. Are most of your friendships targeted on the saying "That everybody is useful, so never break it up with them" ?

My friendships never. My relations with acquaintances very often.


6. Do you like INFPs ?

Never had a problem with an INFP.


7. When you find your crush dating someone else, and getting little intimate, do you get hurt so bad that you close all doors for them into that area of life, love ?

No.


8. Do you cry, or feel bad if a friend leaves you without any particular reason ?

I don't feel bad, I feel curious but overcome it without much effort.
 

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Villainous:3288873 said:
Oh lawd it's a fire
But it's okay because...

All that we see or seem
Is but a dream within a dream

;)
 

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1. Do you find it hard to express your feelings to someone about them ?
After I figured that I have those feelings and decided to tell, no.


2. Do your flirt can ever mean that you are just attracted toward someone or you kinda like them ?
It may mean nothing.


3. Do you always think about money ?
No.


4. Do you like to maintain life long relationships of friendship ?
When possible. I'll break it off when I have to/ it's dying/ rotting.


5. Are most of your friendships targeted on the saying "That everybody is useful, so never break it up with them" ?
No.


6. Do you like INFPs ?
For relationships? Worst idea I ever had. Friendships are okay.


7. When you find your crush dating someone else, and getting little intimate, do you get hurt so bad that you close all doors for them into that area of life, love ?
It's not exactly 'hurt', but my view of them (depends on how they handle the situation) might change and they're no longer considered worthy/ attractive enough.

This basically,
i have in the past. It's not really about getting hurt but about not wasting my time pursuing someone who is taken. I'll find someone else. She basically told me I'm second place with her actions.
8. Do you cry, or feel bad if a friend leaves you without any particular reason ?
I'd try to talk/ question them, but if it looks final, I'd prolly just get annoyed/angry and move on.
 

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Villainous:3289559 said:
:) Poe is my favorite author. He always makes chills run down my spine. Hopefully I'll get a Poe themed tattoo next year.
Ahh, good luck! I have yet to find an author whose every piece of work gives me the same intense feelings. I usually just end up reading the most well known books of all those famous writers.
 

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Oh so you guys answer those questions, but won't answer mine on my thread. I see how it is. Jerks. Nah, I'm just kidding. I do have a question for you all, not a serious one, but here goes: What is your favorite movie/s?
 
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