So I'm 35 and finding myself starting over again in life. I left the military after over 10 years last year and thought I had a plan going forward and also got into the first relationship I had been in in long time at the same time. This epidemic has turned everything on it's head though. The plan I was on no longer makes sense and the relationship sadly recently ended. I find myself so far in life now without really being anywhere professionally or personnaly. As ready as I was to leave the military it at least gave me purpose and connections. It didn't feel as traumatic at first when I left because it wasn't long until I started with her and she became my joy and focus. Ultimately that's what killed the relationship because I was too wrapped up in her. I'm going to go back to school online try to start in a new career but a part of me keeps asking why. Sometimes it feels like I'm just living to live. I guess this post has become more of just a venting but I just wonder if any other INFJ's have found themselves at this point. How do you handle being alone in you're adult life and starting over especially when it feels like you've fallen behind?