I don't have a problem with not getting married, but if they say they don't see anything long term then I will doorslam them, because I refuse to waste my life on people who consider and treat me like "just another random". Saying "we'll see what happens," is not good enough for me. I can't stand people who take relationships on mere whims, as if it was all games and play. I see a dream, and I build on it, and if they don't, they obviously do not and never will feel anything for me, and obviously do not and never will take me seriously.Would you stay in a relationship where your partner says they don't see marriage or long term? However the relationship is fun.