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The issue people know that they're the only ones not corrupt. Every former president, mayor and governor has corruption charges. They are not, because they have other motives and intentions!

Currently the president will likely be a chavisma who promised to protect Venezuela, but FREPAP will also be a political party to be reckoned with. Peru has been hit hard by the covid crisis... Extremist ideologies are on the rise there.

If i live in Peru, they get my vote just for the lolz and because everyone else is corrupt or are making a fool of theirselves!!! I studied all the parties, if i immigrated to Peru, i vote for the cultists!!! Why? Because they're the only ones that respect the mighty Inca Empire, and I secretly want the Incas to be back again! We need to resurrect the Inca's from the dead haha.
 

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I think I can rule out being an INTP, because I don't have Fe PoLR. It's as simple as it is.

I got compliments because I tried to accomodate everyone in our group a lot, because I welcome newcomers well and because I protect them from criticism but I also feel like i'm starting to master intragroup relations as well as intergroup relations. I'm more manipulative than socially inept but i'm very accomodating and I did an effort to welcome & accept new people.

The only issue is large groups, megasize groups (parties, crowded areas, long waiting lines) drain me. Everything is draining but i can hold on to certain situations than others. 1 vs 1 i can stand for 2-3 days long (but intensively without breaks), 6 loud people and i'm exhausted after 8 hours. A party hall drains me almost instantly.
 

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Haha, i love it when people say i have good taste!



my most listened music genres this time... Dream pop is back in second place!!! And experimental now is my third most listened genre. Shoegaze is fourth and synthpop fifth, while electronic first.

But why do people consider the music I love to listen experimental??? I don't get that lol.
 

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What I listened most too in the last days!
 
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WOW... now two far-left candidates are expected to go to second round!!!



Apparently, we are also winning in Peru!!!
 

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Yeule and kedr livanskiy hold a performance in london in november. I might go!!! Perhaps i'll meet likeminded infp's there
 

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So far, it still says brutally cold!

We get maritime polar air from the North Pole fired at us!!! April will be historic cold for Europe! at least for here!
 

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Compared to the average, april will be too cold! This is a picture of end of april compared to what is normal.

April 2021 is likely going to be the coldest april since april 1986!!!!!! The entire spring will probably be the second coldest of the 21st century and be colder than normal as well, which i'm not used to either!!! Especially since long-term models expect the cold to persist through may!!!
 

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The Greens are winning in Germany!!! This is the first poll in which the Greens take the lead. It's also the best poll ever for the German greens. It's also the worst poll for CDU/CSU since they started polling!!!

The CDU announced a few days ago who was going to be their candidate and the Greens did as well. The CDU chose someone who wasn't really popular among the German public, and the Greens chose someone who was more popular, so those voters went to the Greens assumably.
 
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Actually i've been thinking now
an anarchist party can achieve anarchism
without having a majority
just win enough votes to be able to block government formations and you have anarchism
if an anarchist party would get 9% in Belgium
it already likely has enough
to block government formation and have de facto anarchism
 

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The world would be so much better if

The right was: Pirates and agrarians
Center: Just greens and perhaps some populists
Leftists: Communists, democratic socialists, ecosocialists and marxists.

I would love such a system.
 

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Just processing bad habits and recent acknowledgments...

In my dreams, I often experience hyperbolic sadness, irritability, and anxiety. My expressions of those emotions are so dramatic that they seem juvenile; it's like my dream self reverts to a younger, rawer, less filtered state of mind. I feel like I'm supposed to find those dreams cathartic because they're an outlet for the negative emotions that I try to avoid engaging IRL (irritability and sadness, at any rate). Instead, I find the dreams deeply unsettling, but I occasionally wake up from them with a sense of newfound clarity.

A couple of nights ago, I had one of those dreams. I dreamt that I went to extreme lengths to avoid a situation (I'm pretty sure it was a funeral for a family member who died about a month ago, but I think it was more complicated than that). I was also quite fractious and used my nasty temper to deter the other "dream characters" (mostly other family members) from trying to reason with me or finding out what I truly felt.

The dream made me reflect on my real-life behaviors, even though I'm clearly nowhere near as cantankerous and unreasonable as I was in the dream. Still, the dream made me wonder if my real-life avoidance is actually at a problematic level, even if I don't have aggressive ways of avoiding people and situations.

I do all right when I'm alone and generally haven't seen my avoidant behavior as a major personal problem, but deep down, I do yearn for closeness. However, I feel like I have so many negative qualities that I just weigh my friends down or embarrass them by association. As such, I've pulled away from my friends because I'm afraid that I make them feel negative emotions (or I'll make their lives worse if they get too close to me). Being alone is a peaceful compromise for me, and I feel relatively complacent with it because I'm not hurting or embarrassing anyone I care about. (At the same time, I realize that these thoughts are very negative by nature; when I avoid hurting and embarrassing people, I also avoid supporting them and sharing joy with them.)

I mean, I have friends, but I'm so afraid of doing something to hurt, burden, or disappoint them that I put off having meaningful conversations with them "until I'm in a better place" or "until I'm more mature and can be a better friend." Even if I want to reach out to them because I enjoy their company and simply feel like talking to them, I make excuses to avoid reaching out.

For example, I've had issues with my cell phone for a while. For about a year or so, several of my messages and calls wouldn't go through to people, and I wouldn't receive some of their messages and calls. I thought, "Well, I'll put off making any meaningful efforts to contact friends until I get a new phone." I got a new phone yesterday and now have no excuse to keep putting off efforts to contact friends. Now, my excuse is, "Maybe they'll want to video chat. My living space looks too messy, so I'll wait until I clean it." (I've actually had this excuse for a long time, too. I have some of my IRL friends on Discord and could have contacted them over that.)

I also put off responding to friends when they reach out to me (though they typically don't make commitments or reach out for serious reasons; they usually send memes or tell me about something that reminded them of me). It may only be for a few hours, which is still a ridiculous turnaround time for a mere "Lol, wow" or equivalent response. I'll put my phone out of easy reach and act like I didn't see the notification.

I sometimes also occupy myself with work to avoid responding to messages. When I'm not actively working, I plan out projects in my head or think about how I'll draft an email to a leader, industry expert, or another person I must communicate with. I didn't really think about this habit until recently, but I seem to complicate my tasks to draw them out (even if I'm not on the clock) just to avoid talking to people.

I know I have avoidant tendencies, but I haven't actually thought about my behaviors and what they've accomplished until recently. When I look beyond myself and my general complacency with being alone, I see how damaging my habits are to my relationships (maybe they're not outright damaging, but they're definitely neglectful). I see how they inhibit change and stunt my personal growth. I don't mean to avoid people; I just give in to my immediate nervousness and then lose track of time as the excuses pile up inside my head.

As frustrating as these tendencies and thought patterns are, I don't really believe there's anything fundamentally wrong with me. I think there's a mixture of bad experiences and low self-esteem in play, but I think these behaviors are simply unhealthy habits. I have to act against the nervousness as it arises; instead of giving in to the avoidant behavior, I must actively do the opposite of it once I become conscious of the behavior. Even if it doesn't mean acting immediately, I have to commit to a response, communicative task, or bid for connection and make sure I follow through.

It'll make me uncomfortable for a little while. I know that much. Still, I must make those commitments and follow through if I want to break through my complacent solitude and restore meaningfulness to my relationships.
 

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I just have to say that I feel like psychology (or at least as you see it spoken about generally among people) tends to 'disorder-ize' common human experience. Like... it's too quick to separate something out as a particular 'condition' in the sense of not being normal or expected of a person navegating real life - so that everyone begins to feel broken. And also there is SO MUCH cultural bias about what is expected or considered 'correct' ways to feel, think, and act, and anything not fitting this mold needs 'help' to become 'normal' or 'functional'. Of course people have all kinds of issues and I don't mean that none of them are 'real', it's just that... I'm not always sure people are so broken and disorered as I think psychology gives the impression they are.

This is brought to mind while filling out an 'anxiety screening questionaire' for a new doctor and thinking to myself "who the hell doesn't worry about something once in a week - because THEY'RE the one's I'd be concerned about, like... does nothing matter to them? do they have no ability to project cause and effect and distinguish possible problems? do they not know any actual real people because there are always going to be little misunderstandings and various social concerns if you are dealing with other people, and if you never worry about something when it looks like things are likely to go wrong, umm... what? So like, am I going to be labled as haveing "Anxiety" if I truthfull say on this very poorly worded quiz that yes sometimes I worry about various things? Excuse me, that's human, that's life, it's not unreasonable to be concerned about stuff.

so... there. just had to say that.
 

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Been finding yellowed scraps of paper where I'd written poems before and seeing random people on my feed getting back to writing, but for some reason, the beckoning isn't strong enough to make me pick my pen up once more and try.

Ahh. Languishing, as they say.
 

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Been finding yellowed scraps of paper where I'd written poems before and seeing random people on my feed getting back to writing, but for some reason, the beckoning isn't strong enough to make me pick my pen up once more and try.

Ahh. Languishing, as they say.
 

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So, my friend and I decided to break up (friend because that's what we were before, and that's what we'll continue be).

I asked "Any regrets?". Nope. Which was good, because I learned way more than I thought I would, and definitely don't regret.

I'm excited to be (fully) single again, especially with moving--I haven't had many chances to build connections with people outside of my academic environments, honestly. School really took up an exorbitant amount of my time and life, and now I can improve at juggling different parts of my life, and making sure I'm fulfilled in them.

I haven't allowed myself any time to date the past couple of years either. I needed to focus on my last degree, and it just wasn't worth it. But now....yes, I would love to date seriously.
 

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@Electra

My favourite artists from Norway are
Otha
Smerz
and SASSY 009

I love them all three!



Smerz her latest album is Art Pop, Electronic, Modern Classical, Alternative R&B, UK Bass, Experimental Hip Hop, Post-Industrial and Progressive Electronic, and she's from Norway!!!


this is great



YOUR COUNTRY IS GREAT, ELECTRA!
 
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Been searching for music all day long and can't find anything that appeals. And no, I'm not looking for recommendations.
 

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@Electra

My favourite artists from Norway are
Otha
Smerz
and SASSY 009

I love them all three!



Smerz her latest album is Art Pop, Electronic, Modern Classical, Alternative R&B, UK Bass, Experimental Hip Hop, Post-Industrial and Progressive Electronic, and she's from Norway!!!


YOUR COUNTRY IS GREAT, ELECTRA!
Ahem 😁😎
 
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