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I am extremely confident in my Ne.
I think either my Fi comes off as Fe, or I have a strong Fe. I'm fairly certain I have Fi. My values are at the core of my expression. Fairness and honesty are equally important to me. I value others' honesty and strive to be a person with whom others can feel open and safe, yet at the same time, I find myself trying to edit negative conversation so that it's balanced. I don't like complaining and blame. Perceived manipulation and lies make me seethe, whether they're to me or someone else. On the one hand, I take criticism poorly, and on the other hand, I feel it is important to be fair with one's judgments. I was raised to have good manners, and my experience has taught me no one foolish enough to attempt reason when they're angry is worth listening to. Smiling, remembering names, trying to be a good neighbor--no one said I was good at any of this, by the way xDDDD just that I feel it's important to try--and to keep balanced opinions are all supposedly characteristic of Fe, yet I feel those things are important because... they are. I'm still pretty socially awkward, because that mode of expression is most comfortable for me. I'm a homebody. I don't like having more than ten-twenty friends at the same time, either, to be perfectly honest xDDDDD
Tl;dr: Here is my question. If social graces are a value to a Fi user, will they cultivate Fe as a result? Or, were they using Fi all along? For those who read my above paragraph, is it possible I'm not using Fi at all, but Fe? All help is appreciated!
I think either my Fi comes off as Fe, or I have a strong Fe. I'm fairly certain I have Fi. My values are at the core of my expression. Fairness and honesty are equally important to me. I value others' honesty and strive to be a person with whom others can feel open and safe, yet at the same time, I find myself trying to edit negative conversation so that it's balanced. I don't like complaining and blame. Perceived manipulation and lies make me seethe, whether they're to me or someone else. On the one hand, I take criticism poorly, and on the other hand, I feel it is important to be fair with one's judgments. I was raised to have good manners, and my experience has taught me no one foolish enough to attempt reason when they're angry is worth listening to. Smiling, remembering names, trying to be a good neighbor--no one said I was good at any of this, by the way xDDDD just that I feel it's important to try--and to keep balanced opinions are all supposedly characteristic of Fe, yet I feel those things are important because... they are. I'm still pretty socially awkward, because that mode of expression is most comfortable for me. I'm a homebody. I don't like having more than ten-twenty friends at the same time, either, to be perfectly honest xDDDDD
Tl;dr: Here is my question. If social graces are a value to a Fi user, will they cultivate Fe as a result? Or, were they using Fi all along? For those who read my above paragraph, is it possible I'm not using Fi at all, but Fe? All help is appreciated!