Thanks, that helps. I forgot about the whole "needing to know the one right answer" thing. I think I don't have that concern as much because I have very strong mental structures for decision making, so that I never feel like I have to rely on myself to make a decision (I just ask my inner board of advisees, and they always have good answers).
I think whatever you are missing in life is most top of mind to you, and I have always been missing meaningful relationships, so it's always on my mind. Maybe not really a 6 thing, maybe just a me thing.