When you take action when you are upset, what drives you?
Thinking about it and then delivering what you believe is the correct justice for a given situation?
Or! Do you act from impulse first, get angry, dictate what you believe is unfair, then calm down and apologize for the random burst of anger (or do you never apologize given circumstances).
Which action is more constructive for you and why? Do you need to think about what you're going to do and improvise being angry first, or just act on impulse?