MOTM Jan 2014
I've noticed that many people find it sexy when someone is wild and individualistic, and many people pursue "wild women" and "wild men." But I am wondering - does it stop there? If someone thinks for themselves, is wild, intense, passionate - would you marry them? Would you cherish this person for who they are, their independent mind and highly personal views? Or would you want them for a plaything but not for marriage? Let's presume this person has a wild streak and won't listen to other people's rules or play by the books but is honest about who they are, true to their own values, and true to you; takes your feelings into consideration on a personal basis, but just doesn't follow the herd. Would you marry them? Or would you feel more comfortable settling down with someone predictable and "well put together," who can say all the right things at a social gathering and present well and fill the socially expected wife/husband role and play by all the rules? Job, 2.5 kids, white picket fence, traditional wedding, etc.