I stole this idea from other personality types..I know I'm sorry I'm being very unoriginal which is not INFP'ish at all :dry: But wait a minute, that's the point, I'll try and start, hopefully I won't sound unnatural (I probably will, at some point..argh..)
Okay here goes..
You shouldn't put too much focus on what could have been, and what should have been for your life and the world. Putting too much energy into visualizing a better place for the world to be is unhealthy, you cannot move forward wondering about changes that might not even take place. Stop imagining things, or else you would be more impaired with disappointments.
*Now I feel reduced and a bit self-hating lol. I want to run now*