Fantastic
I'll get around to it eventually.
Fantasticand I volunteer Scruffy for the 3w4 description.
Perhaps we could do one for each of the variant stackings, as well. I think we should keep to some general ones, but we can also do other, more specific ones.I personally think variants need to be factored in. Whenever I write about myself, I see the sp coming through all the time.
If anyone wants to take a stab at describing their trifix that'd be pretty enlightening. I think the only trifix description i've seen is the 4-6-8. It's going to be pretty subjective, but hey.
I could do a 4w3 sp/sx one... but I'd need to run it past a few people first. And indeed be sure i'm writing it from the right perspective, with the right amount of insight. I don't want to project things onto the type... and I sure as hell don't want to type up anything incorrect that might mislead people about this type. I would want to try to be as honest as possible (i.e. no 'shining a positive light' to 4w3 negative traits) so i'd like to do a bit more self discovery before I do this as well.
General consensus, I suppose.Who approves of the people?
Threes tend to emphasize the importance of people in getting things done. For me, it's a sense that I can do anything, but people are obstacles -- or, rather, you can't get anything done unless you know how to deal with the people along the way. You could be brilliant, but if you have zero people skills, it's much tougher to get anywhere. People who are good with people get places. The better you can control how people perceive you, the better control you have over the situation and the more likely you are to accomplish things.
Indeed, Threes can become so involved with manipulating identity and perception that they can lose themselves and be oblivious to it all. For us it's often just more of a fact of life than a conscious effort, so we can have trouble recognizing it.
Three is all about growth and ambition. If we're not always getting better, feeling awesome, and believing that we're on track to become supremely awesome, we're not content. In some sense, I suppose there is no final sense of success -- just checkpoints, if you will, hence the trophy-collecting-Three stereotype. We just strive to get better, and better, and better....Eventually we must become the best, but we're never quite satisfied. Never quite there.
Thinking about identity and image and the like is a lot is more of a Two and Four thing. Again, for Three's it's just a fact of life and not really a perceived issue.
I think these are some pretty good points upon which to expand or at least to provide a working point.Social acceptance can catapult your goals, and drives. I also don't see social acceptance as the means, I see it as a bonus, and a shortcut. The means are what you actually do. I avoid ending, because it kills the cycle. If your goal is people oriented, you're still using them as a vehicle, and yes, it can be.
My identity has been warped to move, a true sense only fingers through on occasion (I believe it also ties into needing validation, to prove the identity). Average to unhealthy 3's can't really tell when they're "putting it on" for others, they are out of touch in a self-denial. The image is a tool to reach their goals, it's not what they are. Recognizing the switch is a huge part of a growth for 3s.
I want to explore things that interest me, success is a measurable limit. Success is knowing what you've done, and being known for it. 3's think they can do anything, so success is not really skill per-sea I'd say it's renown.
I have nothing inside that tells me I'm doing a good job, I rely on the outer for that. What I do is, "easy".
Validation is not love, it's knowledge.
I like this but it probably should be expanded upon.Threes are robots that strive to be human;
Eights are humans that strive to be robots.
A bit of a humorous take, but once I thought of it, it actually made a lot of sense....
If this idea does indeed become a reality, I'd love to contribute as someone who has frequently typed as 8w9, as I would love to hear from other 8w9s as well.As we began talking about in another thread, there seems to be a general consensus that it would be great to hear about each of the 18 winged types...from their OWN perspectives. That's right. We want to collect input from as many of the types as we can to make descriptions that really delve into what the types are about, what it's like to be each type, etc.
As of right now, this thread is open for discussion as to how to go about and organize this. Any volunteers who want to talk about their types are welcome and encouraged. However, we can't let just anyone do this. You have to be generally approved, I think, and quite certain of your type. A good understanding of the Enneagram is key. We want this to be as accurate as possible.
I would say that as humorous as this sounds there is some truth to this.agokcen said:Threes are robots that strive to be human;
Eights are humans that strive to be robots.