I had a friend of about 30 years and I had a falling out but I made the initial reconnection so we were friends again. Later, when discussing the falling out, she told me that she wouldn't have ever called me if I hadn't called her. I considered her like family so I was VERY hurt. I've decided that someone that values my friendship no more than that I don't need as a friend. Not to say I'll never speak to her again, but I don't consider her a close friend anymore nor do I consider her like family.