hmm, well lets see....last summer i walked in on my gf having sex w/ some random person, this was almost a 2year relationship btw. awesome day.
another time a good friend of mine was dating a guy i worked with (actually we all worked at the same place together) and a few months later when she left for college and he went w/ her, they broke up and he came back. turns out he was hitting her...needless to say it wasnt just about not wanting to be friends but later on this led to a huge fight that ended in a hospital.
i mean im a pretty easy going person, im patient and understanding. but there are basic things that i dont like and will pretty much be the end of any relationship: disloyalty, dishonesty, self centeredness, etc
i see it as: if i dont like it and i dont wanna be a part of it or be affected by it, then i wont be a part of it. i dont have to talk to someone that i dont like.
another time a good friend of mine was dating a guy i worked with (actually we all worked at the same place together) and a few months later when she left for college and he went w/ her, they broke up and he came back. turns out he was hitting her...needless to say it wasnt just about not wanting to be friends but later on this led to a huge fight that ended in a hospital.
i mean im a pretty easy going person, im patient and understanding. but there are basic things that i dont like and will pretty much be the end of any relationship: disloyalty, dishonesty, self centeredness, etc
i see it as: if i dont like it and i dont wanna be a part of it or be affected by it, then i wont be a part of it. i dont have to talk to someone that i dont like.
