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Why can't women just be direct about not being interested?
Warning: Long and filled with me being a whiny bitch!
As some of you might recall I ended up asking a coworker out to which she declined do to having school. She did however sugest hanging out at a party that friday and gave me her number without me asking. I ended up texting her that thursday and our conversation seemed to go well. At the ended i sugested we go snowboarding that weeked sense we were both off. Again I was turned down (I should have just moved on here but I didnt).
Anyway I go to the party and she seems to act interested. Not much happens between us except some talking and playing a few drinking games. I leave assuming she is interested.
That Sunday I ended up texting her again. We end up laughing about some coworkers that got real drunk at the party and then move to talking about our tastes in music. I found myself tempted to ask her if she was free some time that week but didnt. Figured it was best to back off on this.
Thursday comes around and I decide I should text her and see what she's up to. I dont get a response and find myself thinking maybe she's busy so whatever. That saturday I again send her one text and get no response. At this point I start to admit to myself I'm being avoided and try to tell myself just delete the number and move on but I dont. I ended up convincing myself to call today thinking she could atleast turn me down directly but she dosnt answer.
Now you may be thinking why dont you talk to her at work. The answer to that is its a seasonal job and she got layed off the week after i asked her out.
It seems like every time i ask someone out this is the kind of bullshit I get. I can understand if they tell me there not interested but actually tell me instead of just avoiding me.
Warning: Long and filled with me being a whiny bitch!
As some of you might recall I ended up asking a coworker out to which she declined do to having school. She did however sugest hanging out at a party that friday and gave me her number without me asking. I ended up texting her that thursday and our conversation seemed to go well. At the ended i sugested we go snowboarding that weeked sense we were both off. Again I was turned down (I should have just moved on here but I didnt).
Anyway I go to the party and she seems to act interested. Not much happens between us except some talking and playing a few drinking games. I leave assuming she is interested.
That Sunday I ended up texting her again. We end up laughing about some coworkers that got real drunk at the party and then move to talking about our tastes in music. I found myself tempted to ask her if she was free some time that week but didnt. Figured it was best to back off on this.
Thursday comes around and I decide I should text her and see what she's up to. I dont get a response and find myself thinking maybe she's busy so whatever. That saturday I again send her one text and get no response. At this point I start to admit to myself I'm being avoided and try to tell myself just delete the number and move on but I dont. I ended up convincing myself to call today thinking she could atleast turn me down directly but she dosnt answer.
Now you may be thinking why dont you talk to her at work. The answer to that is its a seasonal job and she got layed off the week after i asked her out.
It seems like every time i ask someone out this is the kind of bullshit I get. I can understand if they tell me there not interested but actually tell me instead of just avoiding me.