Yep. That's my mum in every single aspect. Damn, after reading this my respect for her grew! ("damn" here goes for the realisation that I needed a forum post to make me respect her more :S) Anyway, yes, the really worst thing about the ESTJ mums is in my experience the part where you have to think about "what will the neighbours say" all the time and not being trully yourself (outside). But I know she wants the best for me.