I bent my life on understanding. I want to understand everything and need too or else it will eat me alive. But I lack the ability to understand the minds of INFJs. They confuse me and always defeat me. No matter how hard I try they somehow seem to change my view every minute. Its interesting yet annoying. I can't understand an INFJ. They always defeat me. How does one understand an INFJ? They always seem to just pretty much delete every form of understanding I ever created.