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I am a deeply passionate person who is extremely childlike (playful, goofy, and loving), yet most people in my life would say the opposite; that I'm reserved and laid back.

I am this way with anyone in my life I'm not close to, whether it's family members I've known all my life or new friends. Carrying on conversation isn't a problem at all, its just showing my extreme sides I struggle with.

I'm confident in who I am and feel zero pressure to please anyone, so why do I take time to warm up to new people and let my true soul shine?
 

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I've never considered why I take time to warm up to people...

I'd like to think it's because I'm not emotionally capable of loving everyone as much as I love my closest friends but the real reason probably is that I have a lot of walls up...

I remember my boyfriend(ENFJ) asking me at the start of our relationship about all of this and me telling him he had to be patient because it takes me time to warm up to people. I didn't know exactly why then and I still don't really know why now ):

great questions!
 
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