what do the rest of you think? think everything will be ok if you like someone in the same way again?
LOL Sarah your post on this thread pulsates on the same wavelength as I do.
From my experience... I don't think it's possible to like somebody else in the same way? Everybody is so different, and I've loved in a different way but with the same intensity and integrity. When you meet that next guy, he'll become your everything... and all of a sudden, that other guy.. wasn't the one that got away LOL
I think you'll be okay. If there is somebody better, you'll know it and you may not forget about the previous guy... but the new love of your life... that's worth living and waiting for! :laughing:
or are we all doomed to keep fixating on the one that got away?
I think we're all naturally fixated on our last love. I mean knowing myself... my fist bf, after our split. I cried my eyes out and swore that I would never love somebody again. Welll... I was wrong. I did love somebody again, even MORE this time but it was a different love because he was a different person. Now I can sit here and say the same thing (that I'll never love again) and believe it with all my heart because I haven't been proven otherwise.... but when or if it happens, I have no doubt I'll forget about those two. I can only love (romantically) 1 person at a time :laughing: but I mean... that next guy, he's gonna have to be ridiculously awesome royal flush, lucky number 7, spin the lottery win the jackpot type of guy! I may die old and single lol
sometimes i think two people can like each other very much, and still manage to screw up everything.
I've learned that to be quite true. Yes, you can love somebody alot and still manage to royally screw it up. Is there such a thing as loving too much? *nods*