Seems to me a 5 who wants kids would be the ultimate paradox, since children are by definition totally dependent, a drain on resources (emotional, physical, financial), and sap all your personal time for whatever interests you may have now and for the next eighteen-plus years. Knowing what I know about 5s, I'm sure most would agree. And yet, my 5 says he wants to have a small army someday. He is sx/so, could this explain his desire? Or is he just talking out of his ass to get me in bed? (Don't answer that.) If you're a 5 who wants kids, why, knowing they will likely hinder your freedom and independence? To say the least.