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I have known several ENFPs in my life. Overall, I tend to get along with them very well but one thing has always puzzled me.
In all ENFPs, I have seen two sides: one, someone who tends to act years younger than who they are and the other is someone with high levels of maturity.
Overall, I have noticed that for the most part, I see the younger person. Almost, like they have to do anything to get attention. However, around me and others like me, I see the person with high levels of maturity and a nonconformist.
As an INFJ, this behavior baffles my mind. INFJs for the most part present the same person to everyone: the quiet, mysterious, nonconforming individual.
I guess my question is: who is the real ENFP? Is the real ENFP someone who acts years younger than who you are and does whatever to get attention or do you do that out of insecurity because you feel you need to act that way to get and keep friends? Is the real ENFP someone who has high levels of maturity and is a nonconformist or do you just act that way around me to impress me so I will be your friend? Or is the ENFP just a split personality who just confuses the hell out of us INFJs?
Sorry, for all the questions. INFJs tend to love to analyze
In all ENFPs, I have seen two sides: one, someone who tends to act years younger than who they are and the other is someone with high levels of maturity.
Overall, I have noticed that for the most part, I see the younger person. Almost, like they have to do anything to get attention. However, around me and others like me, I see the person with high levels of maturity and a nonconformist.
As an INFJ, this behavior baffles my mind. INFJs for the most part present the same person to everyone: the quiet, mysterious, nonconforming individual.
I guess my question is: who is the real ENFP? Is the real ENFP someone who acts years younger than who you are and does whatever to get attention or do you do that out of insecurity because you feel you need to act that way to get and keep friends? Is the real ENFP someone who has high levels of maturity and is a nonconformist or do you just act that way around me to impress me so I will be your friend? Or is the ENFP just a split personality who just confuses the hell out of us INFJs?
Sorry, for all the questions. INFJs tend to love to analyze