Most definitely. My cousin and my aunt (and... pretty much their whole immediate family) are really dependent people. They can't do anything for themselves, which is how they end up being so clueless about everything. Or maybe they can't do anything BECAUSE they are clueless about everything? I'm not sure. All that matters is... they can't do anything.And you say she's turning 16..
On the plus side you must have a lot of funny stories about.
They even call me up all the time to ask me "WE NEED TO WRITE A PAPER ON ______ CAN YOU HELP US DO RESEARCH." I just instruct them to go on google and type in the name. Then they're all, "WOW VANNA YOU'RE SO GOOD YOU HAVE ALL THE BEST WAYS TO LOOK FOR STUFF."