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Most likely to be cheaters?

  • ISTJ

    Votes: 6 6.6%
  • ISTP

    Votes: 15 16.5%
  • ISFP

    Votes: 13 14.3%
  • ISFJ

    Votes: 8 8.8%
  • ESTP

    Votes: 51 56.0%
  • ESTJ

    Votes: 10 11.0%
  • ESFJ

    Votes: 13 14.3%
  • ESFP

    Votes: 35 38.5%
  • INTP

    Votes: 12 13.2%
  • INTJ

    Votes: 7 7.7%
  • INFP

    Votes: 8 8.8%
  • INFJ

    Votes: 8 8.8%
  • ENTJ

    Votes: 10 11.0%
  • ENTP

    Votes: 27 29.7%
  • ENFJ

    Votes: 9 9.9%
  • ENFP

    Votes: 16 17.6%

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If you don't know whether you're in a relationship, then by default you're not in a relationship. And if so, then it's not really cheating, if that person starts dating someone else?
 

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Here is the biggest thing I wonder when ya all assume ESTP are biggest cheaters.

Was it really a relationship or was this a delusion. Because I do think ESTP are hesitant on settling down, and attract a lotta people who do that whole ‘he’s not that into me doormat chase thing’ than it backfires. And the people go scream cheater.
 

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Hey there guys ☺
I did some research on the stuff:
From the most to least loyal types:
1- ISFJ: Si Fe Ti Ne
2- ISTJ: Si Te Fi Ne
3- INFJ: Ni Fe Ti Se
4- INTJ: Ni Te Fi Se
5- ESFJ: Fe Si Ne Ti
6- ESTJ: Te Si Ne Fi
7- ENFJ: Fe Ni Se Ti
8- ENTJ: Te Ni Se Fi
9- INFP: Fi Ne Si Te
10- INTP: Ti Ne Si Fe
11- ISFP: Fi Se Ni Te
12- ISTP: Ti Se Ni Fe
13- ENFP: Ne Fi Te Si
14- ENTP: Ne Ti Fe Si
15- ESFP: Se Fi Te Ni
16- ESTP: Se Ti Fe Ni
And remember that types mean nothing when it comes down to each person's decision so it might just mean nothing and there might be a saint ESTP out there with strong moral codes.
Though if you want to ask and discuss feel free ;)
 

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Hey there guys ☺
I did some research on the stuff:
From the most to least loyal types:
1- ISFJ: Si Fe Ti Ne
2- ISTJ: Si Te Fi Ne
3- INFJ: Ni Fe Ti Se
4- INTJ: Ni Te Fi Se
5- ESFJ: Fe Si Ne Ti
6- ESTJ: Te Si Ne Fi
7- ENFJ: Fe Ni Se Ti
8- ENTJ: Te Ni Se Fi
9- INFP: Fi Ne Si Te
10- INTP: Ti Ne Si Fe
11- ISFP: Fi Se Ni Te
12- ISTP: Ti Se Ni Fe
13- ENFP: Ne Fi Te Si
14- ENTP: Ne Ti Fe Si
15- ESFP: Se Fi Te Ni
16- ESTP: Se Ti Fe Ni
And remember that types mean nothing when it comes down to each person's decision so it might just mean nothing and there might be a saint ESTP out there with strong moral codes.
Though if you want to ask and discuss feel free ;)
I think this is a poor interpretation. There's a wide gulf between having sex with someone and being in a relationship with someone. ESTP's don't settle into a relationship very often. How is it cheating if no commitment was made in the first place? I'd say ESTP's rarely make commitments, not that ESTP's are cheaters.
 

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I think this is a poor interpretation. There's a wide gulf between having sex with someone and being in a relationship with someone. ESTP's don't settle into a relationship very often. How is it cheating if no commitment was made in the first place? I'd say ESTP's rarely make commitments, not that ESTP's are cheaters.
Hey there :)
I think I would agree at some point however it's more of a caring and memory fact:
ESTP Se combined with inferior Ni often makes a person who would seeks what happens right now, something like if you ask him/her: "But what about that person? Don't you think that you would upset him/her with your actions?" They would reply like this: "I don't care about the unknown outcomes of my actions, I haven't decided anything yet and I live for myself making my own luck".
So it's just part of the problem itself, though as I said it's more of an unhealthy behaviour more likely to be seen in an ESTP with weak Ni and Fe. And sure, we are all talking about a relationship not just some hook up with a random girl/guy.
 

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Hey there :)
I think I would agree at some point however it's more of a caring and memory fact:
ESTP Se combined with inferior Ni often makes a person who would seeks what happens right now, something like if you ask him/her: "But what about that person? Don't you think that you would upset him/her with your actions?" They would reply like this: "I don't care about the unknown outcomes of my actions, I haven't decided anything yet and I live for myself making my own luck".
So it's just part of the problem itself, though as I said it's more of an unhealthy behaviour more likely to be seen in an ESTP with weak Ni and Fe. And sure, we are all talking about a relationship not just some hook up with a random girl/guy.
I'm an ESTP. From our group, I see most of us rarely commit to a relationship. There's no reason to cheat when most of us aren't committing to a relationship in the first place. I'd say for us to actually agree to be in a relationship, is a big deal to start with. I don't go for very long periods without sex, but I can go a pretty long time without a relationship. When I have made the commitment to be in a relationship, I was all in. I just don't think the majority of ESTP are cheaters. It's very difficult to agree to be exclusive with someone in the first place. There's a really easy and simple way to avoid that shit show if you don't now if you can handle it: Don't agree to something you aren't ready for.
 

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I'm an ESTP. From our group, I see most of us rarely commit to a relationship. There's no reason to cheat when most of us aren't committing to a relationship in the first place. I'd say for us to actually agree to be in a relationship, is a big deal to start with. I don't go for very long periods without sex, but I can go a pretty long time without a relationship. When I have made the commitment to be in a relationship, I was all in. I just don't think the majority of ESTP are cheaters. It's very difficult to agree to be exclusive with someone in the first place. There's a really easy and simple way to avoid that shit show if you don't now if you can handle it: Don't agree to something you aren't ready for.
Hmm interesting, as a complete opposite of your personality I can't sit next to people whom I don't want to for a long time, not that I mean disrespect or something but I just simply can't and don't want to. So it turns out for me that sex might not be enjoyable just for the act of sex and I will only flirt with someone when I think that I can commit myself to them, and it's out of my control.
So what I can do is to ask that what I mean to the person so that I might not just get human interaction, when the thing that I want is commitment and mutual likeness. So I think that I can ask, and a person who doesn't believe in commitment can just simply answer, but it really irritates me when the person says that I don't know and let's see what might happen, in that situation there are only two possible outcome: Either I would get used for just some interaction, sex, flirting and even talking and then got dumped away or I would even avoid further talking, so the other person thinks that it means that I don't even like to talk with them when it's not the case.
But thanks for your answer, I can see that not all of us are the same. I can suggest for the types like myself asking and for the types like yourself answering honestly about what you want so nobody would get hurt. 😊
 

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Hmm interesting, as a complete opposite of your personality I can't sit next to people whom I don't want to for a long time, not that I mean disrespect or something but I just simply can't and don't want to. So it turns out for me that sex might not be enjoyable just for the act of sex and I will only flirt with someone when I think that I can commit myself to them, and it's out of my control.
So what I can do is to ask that what I mean to the person so that I might not just get human interaction, when the thing that I want is commitment and mutual likeness. So I think that I can ask, and a person who doesn't believe in commitment can just simply answer, but it really irritates me when the person says that I don't know and let's see what might happen, in that situation there are only two possible outcome: Either I would get used for just some interaction, sex, flirting and even talking and then got dumped away or I would even avoid further talking, so the other person thinks that it means that I don't even like to talk with them when it's not the case.
But thanks for your answer, I can see that not all of us are the same. I can suggest for the types like myself asking and for the types like yourself answering honestly about what you want so nobody would get hurt. 😊
I think I'm an effective communicator but I also have common sense. As a young woman, I can't go on Tinder and put "looking for a good time" on my profile. My priority is my career and finding a life partner is not. I have friends that I'm happy with to fill that space in my life. I don't think I've ever strung anyone along, it seems like a desperate move by someone who didn't get enough attention from their parents as a kid.

Not sure why you felt the need to tell me you don't spent time around people like me. It was superfluous and condescending.
 

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I think I'm an effective communicator but I also have common sense. As a young woman, I can't go on Tinder and put "looking for a good time" on my profile. My priority is my career and finding a life partner is not. I have friends that I'm happy with to fill that space in my life. I don't think I've ever strung anyone along, it seems like a desperate move by someone who didn't get enough attention from their parents as a kid.

Not sure why you felt the need to tell me you don't spent time around people like me. It was superfluous and condescending.
Oh I'm sorry, I meant no offense and no I don't know you enough to say such things. What I meant was just about special cases of relations with people. And no when I don't want to talk about such things with people doesn't mean that I don't want to talk with them at all. About that part it only happens when someone is dishonest about his/her feelings.
And for the honesty part, no it doesn't mean that you would say what you want to unnecessary people, I just mean only to the person whom you think that your actions and words have an impact on, and someone who asks you about your feelings is certainly considered as one of these people.
 

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Hahahaha! EPs take the cheat-cake! The most cheater-ey person I've ever met was an INTJ guy. Basically, hitting on women on Tinder was like 50% of his daily routine. He had a GF and he was cheating on her with 2 others... and he was really proud of himself, proud enough to tell me everything about it.
 

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Hey there :)
I think I would agree at some point however it's more of a caring and memory fact:
ESTP Se combined with inferior Ni often makes a person who would seeks what happens right now, something like if you ask him/her: "But what about that person? Don't you think that you would upset him/her with your actions?" They would reply like this: "I don't care about the unknown outcomes of my actions, I haven't decided anything yet and I live for myself making my own luck".
So it's just part of the problem itself, though as I said it's more of an unhealthy behaviour more likely to be seen in an ESTP with weak Ni and Fe. And sure, we are all talking about a relationship not just some hook up with a random girl/guy.
What the fuck did I just read 🤣.
Get the fuck over yourself.
You just translated surface level Mbti shit to Roslyn like you’re an expert. Your understanding of ESTP sucks stop talking

You fricken requote adjectives of a description and explain it to a long time Mbti forum cafe member about their own type.

Well the book said ESTP blah blah so ESTP blah blah 🤣 wtf
 

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What the fuck did I just read 🤣.
Get the fuck over yourself.
You just translated surface level Mbti shit to Roslyn like you’re an expert. Your understanding of ESTP sucks stop talking

You fricken requote adjectives of a description and explain it to a long time Mbti forum cafe member about their own type.

Well the book said ESTP blah blah so ESTP blah blah 🤣 wtf
Well sorry to make you upset, as an anonymous account I don't care much about what a member tells me about MBTI, the truth is that the whole pseudo science thing and people making up forums starting small talking on the background of psychology has a deep root back to 90's where people started to see the personal aspects of life. Until then the majority of people couldn't care less about Jungian psychology or what Myers Briggs said about personality. I don't think that you have neither the experience nor the study to lecture a person who has worked as a human resources specialist for ten years, specially if the person is someone who doesn't care much about what the book said, always uses a poor grammar and has learned that 🤣 emojis doesn't hide feelings and show a cool attitude, over the years I have also seen that it is a common thing for Fe users to smile like this to hide their true feelings and intentions, I'm sorry about Roslyn I guess.
Again as I said before, everything depends on the person, so sorry if I said something that tagged people or made them upset.
 
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