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o.o I'm curious because I worry as well, uncertainty irritates me and there is no way I can be a J.
 

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As previously addressed, uncertainty, surprises (I love surprises if I'm surprised with them, like randomly getting a present, but if you say 'I'm going to give you a present tomorrow' I'll go insane), lack of control, things not going the way we planned them. Especially that last one. I could be an extremity but if things aren't perfect I'm worried (and yes, that does mean I'm worried 900% of the time because of the whole 'non-existent' part of perfection).
 

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Things not done the "right" way.

Things done the new "right" way without being shown the evidence for the case.

A lack of information to process OR the lack of explanation of a given structure of a way of doing a thing.

Someone refusing to help then half way through the process decides to help - this is more interference than help with any given short-term project.

Interruption of aforementioned project with an unrelated remark.

Many more things along those lines.
 

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Lack of details (I guess that means the same as uncertainty), especially in a situation where I need to make a judgement call.
Being in a situation where I need to "think on my feet".
How I come across to people--I don't want them to think ill of me, so unless I get reassurance, I will get worried.

There are probably more things that worry me. I tend to fret if I'm not careful. Although as I am more aware of these tendencies, I can be more proactive in letting go of my worries.
 

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Being rejected by people we love and those we respect.
Completely turning away by choice or force from one's principles (or is this more of a Enneagram 1 thing?).
 

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The Joker, Tyler Durden, Charles Manson, Marilyn Manson, Lady Gaga, Ladyboys, Nuclear War, Bath Salts, Mental Asylums, Hoarding, Al-Qaeda, The Third World, Cupboards that aren't child-proof, Jaywalking.

Basically anything that is chaotic and strange. SJs are civilized people.
 

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The Joker, Tyler Durden, Charles Manson, Marilyn Manson, Lady Gaga, Ladyboys, Nuclear War, Bath Salts, Mental Asylums, Hoarding, Al-Qaeda, The Third World, Cupboards that aren't child-proof, Jaywalking.

Basically anything that is chaotic and strange. SJs are civilized people.
I don't know about Lady Gaga, to be honest. Kind of know what to expect of her by now so she is safe and predictable. :tongue:
 

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Unpredictability, decision making, and how others think of you. I'm an ISTJ-ISFJ mix, and I live my life freaking out over what everyone says and my words online. I'm too afraid of being judged even though I judge others a lot.
 

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Mainly this all stems from my children. It is the worrying part that comes after "letting them go". I don't like to project my insecurities onto my kids, they need to live life and learn from their own unique experiences. Still, I'm worried. (I'd have a beer and chill out, but I'm afraid one of them would break their arm, and I could not drive them to the hospital. LOL)
 
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