This. Exactly.I'm actually in this situation. There is an ENTP girl I like. When I'm around her, I seem to become... "lighter" than I usually am. I become unusually spontaneous and will do things that would normally bore me so I could just merely talk to her. E.g. I HATE long movies, but I actually watched the extended edition of her favorite movie trilogy, The Lord of the Rings, just so I could talk to her about it (and now The Hobbit is coming soon *groan!*) I take any chance I get to have meaningless conversation with her.
lol ive been told by several girls that my "putting myself out there" is practically the same as how I usually act. T____T females...and I expected them to catch onto the small nuances of my behavior....This. Exactly.
We INFJs don't put ourselves out there, all that much, and if we do, there's probably a very good reason, in our mines, to do so.
Maybe this is self serving, but I find a certain brilliance and beauty that is under appreciated with some of the ways I have heard INFJ's make these creative gestures. Who cares if they are sometimes corny. If they are sincere, and real effort and thought was put into it, I think the world needs that. The world needs a little corny.And omg spontenaety!!! An INFJ's creativity multiplies ten fold when it comes to a girl he likes. For example in the 1/10 chance that I do ask someone to homecoming, its not going to be with flowers and chocolates. Well the girl I asked really liked manga/anime so I drew a scene of me asking her to homecoming with the ending open ended. :|