I'm sure this has been asked ad nauseam before, but can one change their personality type? I know some believe we are born into our personality types, but some believe it changes based on our life events. I realize this area is sort of vague, at least to me it is. My second question is, if it's possible, how can I develop my thinking>feeling and become more of an INTJ? I hate my Fe and it makes me feel very negative about myself.