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There's a part of me that wishes I was above that. But there is another part of me that says why are you worried about it? You flirt, you get a compliment - you give a compliment and move on. But why do I do it? That's my question at this point in my life is why?
This is an old post, and I don't know if you are still around, but I wonder.

I wonder if you have more insight into that question. What drives some of us - perhaps a bit later in life - to go through what you mentioned here?

The encounter with an ESTP, which you described in your last post in this thread, is riveting, personally. I went through the same with an ESTP a year ago. The flirt was not at all intentional then, but substantial upon reflection, and it haunts me to this day. It will be one of a few significant events in my life, which I will remember to the very end.

What haunts me, however, is not a regret; it is this very haunt itself, which I think goes back to that question you mentioned. What in the world is it that we are missing in secret?
 

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I think that being a mature INFJ is my greatest gift. Yes, growing up and having no clue why I felt out of place with most every other human that I encountered was daunting but as an adult I love who I am. I've mastered being the social chameleon, I rarely feel awkward in social situations and my intuition is sharper now than it has ever been. Forums like this where people can exchange ideas and stories will go a long way in helping all personalities but especially so for INFJs.
 

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what you call 'needy' some might call 'intimate', what you call 'emotional basketcase' some might call 'highly sensitive', or even simply 'emotional'. might want to rephrase your question, though i doubt anyone would trust your intentions or open mindedness enough to give you an answer. if you come across as so immediately judgmental and condescending why try?
Amen to that
 
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