I'm not really just tired of the sex aspect, but the whole not connecting on a deep level with a guy. I'm 27 and I've wanted a deep relationship since I was a teenager but it's never happened. I'm frustrated and I see no reason why I should believe it ever will. I'm also not willing to get intimate with a guy who doesn't want a deep connection. Meaning my idealism is going to keep me from ever having a real relationship. I wish I could compromise or something but there's just no way it would feel right doing it with someone I wasn't connecting with. I literally won't have sex or even kiss till there's a deep connection and I know that about myself and it scares me. I could literally be a 60 yr old virgin unless I get some stroke of luck and run into a deep guy. I don't like the idea of living alone and never having anything close to a family.
To make matters worse this forum has spoiled me! You are all so intelligent and idealistic and unique - I want a guy like that! But this forum is not the real world and it's not reality. You've raised my idealistic standard still further while I deal with guys who just want one night stands in my real life :/ Thanks a whole lot ppl
So anyway, I guess I'm just wondering what the hell I should do with myself. Unfortunately I have a very high sex drive and am not cool with the celibate life. I also have an illness that makes it hard to deal with stress - any kind, even being horny, actually especially being horny :/
Thoughts? Ideas? If you are in a similar situation how are you dealing with it?
To make matters worse this forum has spoiled me! You are all so intelligent and idealistic and unique - I want a guy like that! But this forum is not the real world and it's not reality. You've raised my idealistic standard still further while I deal with guys who just want one night stands in my real life :/ Thanks a whole lot ppl
So anyway, I guess I'm just wondering what the hell I should do with myself. Unfortunately I have a very high sex drive and am not cool with the celibate life. I also have an illness that makes it hard to deal with stress - any kind, even being horny, actually especially being horny :/
Thoughts? Ideas? If you are in a similar situation how are you dealing with it?